Final Flashcards
Differences begets childhood and adolescent friendship
Childhood friends talk about sharing, helping and common activities. ( friendship means having companions)
Adolescent friend talk about common interests, similar attitude/values, loyalty and commitment (friendship means having strong bonds)
Components of intimacy (4)
1) feeling of emotional closeness/ emotional bonds
2) interconnectedness - concern for each other
3) disclose private information
4) sharing of common interests and activities
How do adolescent shows good intimacy skills?
Be honest and self disclosing
Know how to engage in trust and feel disappointed when someone is breaks their trust
Cognitive changes allow adolescents to have …
Better understanding of social relations
- I.e. Advances in social understanding, self disclosure, sensitivity and empathy
Changes in social roles give adolescents ….
Opportunities to be with friends alone
Through friends they acquire emotional experiences
Develop social autonomy
Spend hours in conversation
Physical changes give adolescent
Bring common concerns
Interest in romance
Emerging sexuality
How does having a secure attachment with parents impact intimate relations with peers?
1) advanced social competencies (trust)
2) internal working model (beliefs and expectations of the relationship
3) allows one to talk enter more satisfying intimate relationship
4) ability to be more assertive and autonomous
How does insecure attachment with parents impact intimate relations with peers?
1) more sensitive to rejection
2) more emotional problems
3) more behaviours problems
- anxious avoidant –> indifference/avoids
- anxious/ resistant –> distress and anger
Reaction vrs sensitivity
Adolescent is a time of heightened sensitivity
- some adolescent at normal, some are highly vulnerable to rejection (rejection sensitive), often ending up being excluded (mind =reality)
- high risk of depression and anxiety
What traits develop from a secure attachment ?
Less anger
Appropriate assertiveness
Autonomy
What are the likely outcomes of secure attachment?
1) More stable relationships
2) more social competence
3) school success
4) less likely to be involved in drugs and alcohol
What traits develop from insecure attachment?
1) anger
2) sadness
3) can be dependent and independent
What are the outcomes of insecure attachment
Many problems including
1) maladaptive coping
2) mental health problems ( depression, anxiety, eating disorders, etc.)
Intimacy in the physiological sense means
Formation, maintenance and termination of close relationships