Exam Three Flashcards
(45 cards)
What are we searching for in interdependence?
Safety
what do we associate safety with?
interdependence with others
what do we associate home with
interdependence with others
three principles for this section
- humans are constantly searching for safety in interdependence
- certain forms of interdependence are experienced as being safe
- as we search for safety, we will have to adapt to situations of vague interdependence
2 questions for this section
- what dimensions of interdependence lead us to feel safe?
- what can go wrong in our relationships because we are so motivated to find safety in interdependence?
A childs first motivation
survival to be fed
a childs second motivation
learning to manage interdependence
The most important dimensions of interdependence?
Roles
Norms
Relationships
Roles
set of expected behaviors for group members
2 types of interpersonal power attracted to roles
fate control
behavior control
fate control
the ability of person A to influence person B no matter what person B does
behavior control
the ability of person a to influence person b by changing what person a does (negotiation)
norms
rules for behavior
relationship cohesiveness
forces that draw group members to each other
what do groups manage their interdependence through
the three dimensions
what does a child learn through learning
sense of accomplishment and competence
sense of safety
why does a child gain a sense of accomplishment with learning the dimensions of interdependence
the child sees themselves grow in their understanding of interedependence
what kind of relationship do adults seek
that make us feel at home
what can go wrong with this constant seeking of at home feeling
primary group orientation
primary group orientation
a script for how good interdependence is set up and how that person fits into that good interdependence
vague interdependence
situations in which requirements of interdependence are unclear
what are situations of vague interdependence characterized by?
being outside the normal flow of our usual interdependence interactions
being without clear roles, norms, and relationship cohesiveness
what questions do situations of vague interdependence make us ask?
what is my role
what are my rules
how do i develop relationship
what kind of social motivation is set in motion by vague interdependence
to find a role self