Exam 4 Flashcards
Family-how related
blood, marriage or adoption
Family- how meaning has changed (%)
1970- 40% nuclear
2010- 21% nuclear
overall- 29% same sex (inc.)
Family- orientation
no choice, born into
lrg. socializing impact
Ex. SES
Family- procreation
having kids when and with whom IS a choice
Starting families- forms of attraction
PHYSICAL (at first) as age looks become less important proximity similarity status cul./ race
Starting families- forms of attraction- Proximity
have to know e/o exists
transition btw many ponds in lifetime
you meet about 30 ppl in your life that would be a good match for you
internet inc. exposure and broadens pond
Starting families- forms of attraction- Familiarity/ Similarity
connect based on same chara.
Starting families- forms of attraction- Status
in past
men looked for wives that could protect
now
women look for men that offer finan. security
71% of wmn agreed w/ statement
Ex. why ppl as your major
Starting families- forms of attraction- Culture and Race
cultural pressure on who is an appropriate partner
Life Cycle- def. of love
being sexually attracted to another
and idealizing another
look past faults + accept
Life Cycle- movement marriage- importance of love
depends on religion
some require ppl to be in love to marry
o/ think that love is something you learn after you are married
Life cycle- Endogamy
ppl w/ similar chara. tend to marry e/o reguardless
Rates of Marriage
1960- 1-10 not married
2005- 1-5 not married
*amnt ppl getting married is dec.
Cohabiting
2016- 18 million ppl normative beh. to transition to marriage older get, less need to get remarried occurs in females 20-27 and males 23-30 (1960)
Cohabiting- serial
having 1+ partners and never getting married
inc. neg. feelings toward marriage
common in divorced wmn w/ kids
Childbirth- Marriage dynamics after birth, at 6 and during adolescence
expec. after marriage to have kids
after 1st birth
marri. satisfaction dec.
new responsibilities and schedules
at 6
marri. satisfaction inc.
kids go to school
adolescence
marri. sat. dec. again
dealing w/ many chances + beh.
Social class v Childbirth time- middle class
postpone having kids
inc. marri. satis.
inc. financial stability
prt of lower risk taking culture
Social class v Childbirth time- Role of the Father
inc. in last 30 yrs
more involved and role redefined
Social class v Childbirth time- Daycare
kids not socialized by only family
socialized by kids and teachers
wmen work instead of stay home
need care givers for childrn
30% In pre-school
10% have nannies
Concerted Cultivation
inc. involvement of kids in activities
pressured by parents
usually upper and mid. class families
parents introd. competition to teach kids how to be successful
Ex. transfer from sports to job promotion
depends on resources of ppl
Ex. lower SES ppl don’t have money for yoga
Functionalism- Family- sexuality
defines sexual beh.
appropriate partners diff. w/ culture
Functionalism- Social Placement
inherit social class
exposed same resources as parents
more likely to marry ppl you are similar w/
Functionalism- material and emotional security
“Haven argument”
receive from family
Conflict Perspective- Family
family money should be passed dwn through generations
family= social institutions
cause inequal.
Ex. ppl w. $ from family don’t have to work hard
Conflict Perspective- Male control- Power dynamic
power dynamic est. mom v dad parents v kids changes overtime as kids get older they earn more trust + begin to be equal w/ older members of the family
Symbolic Interactionalism- Family
learned and represen. by notable experiences
used to represent what family is supp. look like
def. of fam varies w/ person
but way learn what fam. is is the same
Symbolic Interactionalism- Difficulty of Divorce
look at how ppl find themselves again after a relationship
Ex. Me v We
separate own experi. from those, you had w/ a sig. o/
Symbolic Interactionalism- Emotional Labor
anything that requires extra effort related to your emotions
Ex. researching vets or writing thank you cards
usually applied to only women
WHY?
Symbolic Interactionalism- Negotiation of roles
even though society has changed
still carryover of work role expectations
Ex. men wrk profes. jobs and wmn wrk at home
Preindustrial Family
everyone had job in family
own mini-economy (self suffic.)
respons. for own survival
Ex. Little House on the Prarie
depended on kinship network
extended families help e/o
*weakened as families became urban
Industrial Family
no kinship network
have to rely on others to live
requires making money
*idea of modern nuclear family dev.
Dad goes to work and returns for dinner
Mom takes care of house chores
Women now
begin working outside the home
hire childcare
Women now- Second shift
unpaid work do at home after get done with job
Ex. making dinner, laundry and cleaning
wmn work 15 hrs more / wk at home than men
by dec second shift marri. tends to be happier and more stable
Women now- Second shift- Tactics
men try to get out of housework
instead of nego. roles
use tactics
“substitute offerings”
give women flowers so wives feel like they can’t complain