Exam #3 Flashcards
When does emerging adulthood occur?
The transition from adolescence to adulthood; occurs from approx. 18 to 25 years of age
What are the key features associated with emerging adulthood?
o Identity exploration, especially in love and work
o Instability
o Self-focus
o Feeling in-between
o The age of possibilities, at a time when individuals have an opportunity to transform their lives
What is the top-dog phenomenon?
Moving from being the oldest, biggest, and most powerful in elementary to being the youngest, smallest, and least powerful in middle/junior high school
How does top-dog phenomenon apply to various ages and stages of life?
Replays after high school and movement to a larger, more impersonal school structure
Includes: interaction with people from diverse backgrounds; an increased focus on achievement and what “success” is defined as
Binge drinking
having five or more drinks in a row at least once in the last two weeks
Extreme binge drinking
having 10 to 15 or more drinks in a row in the last two weeks
Alcoholism
Long-term, repeated, uncontrolled, compulsive, and excessive alcohol use impairing the user’s health and relationships
Pregaming
getting drunk before going out and socializing
What are SMART goals?
o Specific: Make goals clear and specific
o Measurable: Define measurable assets
o Attainable: Confirm your goals are attainable
o Relevant: Verify your goals are relevant
o Time-Based: Set up a time-based plan
What stage of Piaget’s cognitive development characterizes adults as well as adolescents?
Formal Operational: Theoretical, hypothetical, and counterfactual thinking; abstract logic and reasoning; strategy and planning become possible; concepts learned in one context can be applied to another
Planning for the future, problem solve for hypothetical situations
Describe Erikson’s intimacy versus isolation stage
o Intimacy: self-disclosure and the sharing of private thoughts
o Intimacy is finding oneself while losing oneself in another person
o Failure to achieve intimacy results in social isolation
Secure attachment
adults who have positive views of relationships, find it easy to get close to others, and are not overly concerned or stressed out about their romantic relationships
Avoidant attachment
adults who are hesitant about getting involved in romantic relationships and once in a relationship, tend to distance themselves from their partner
Anxious attachment
adults who demand closeness, are less trusting, and are more emotional, jealous and possessive
Affectionate love
Companionate love: occurs when someone desires to have the other person near and has a deep, caring affection for the other person
Consummate love
The ideal and complete form of love, characterized by the presence of passion, intimacy, and commitment
Describe Sternberg’s Triarchic Theory of love
o Passion: physical and sexual attraction
o Intimacy: warmth, closeness, and sharing
o Commitment: intent to maintain the relationship even with problems
Who is Gottman?
A world-renowned therapist who is known for his work on marital stability and divorce prediction
Gottman’s magic ratio for couples
5 to 1: For every one negative feeling or interaction between partners, there must be five positive feelings or interactions
4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse
Criticism
Contempt
Defensiveness
Stonewalling
Criticism
Verbally attacking personality or character
Contempt
Attacking sense of self with an intent to insult or abuse
Defensiveness
Victimizing yourself to ward off a perceived attack and reverse the blame
Stonewalling
Withdrawing to avoid conflict and convey disapproval, distance, and separation