EXAM 2 Chapter 4 Part 3: Socioemotional Development in Children Flashcards
Infant Attachment
the emotional bond between and infant and its caregiver; attachments vary from interactions coming from baby AND caregiver
Mary Ainsworth
Did “The Strange Situation” Experiment
- Separate a baby after some time from their mother and put with a stranger, then mother returns to child again
- REUNION MOST SIGNIFICANT!
Is the infant soothed by mother? Does the mother provide them comfort? - Some can have genetic dispositions(trouble adjusting outside womb)
- chronic illness can affect this
Attachment Styles in Study
Secure, anxious-ambivalent, avoidant, and disorganized/disoriented
Secure Attachment seen in Mary’s experiment
Child playing with mother/idependently but checking to see if mother is there, Wary of Stranger, Cries when mother leaves and stranger cannot comfort them, Mother gives immediate comfort to child when reentering
Anxious-ambivalent attachment style in Mary’s study
Higher level of the base level anxiety, Higher anxiety with stranger , Looks to mother for comfort and wants it, but grumpy and angry towards them and refusing to calm down for a period of time
Avoidant attachment style in Mary’s study
o Do not respond to stranger
o Do not respond to mother leaving
o Avoiding mother’s influence
o Children when watching internal reactions, they do have higher blood pressure and higher heart rate(They ARE Anxious, just not noticeable to naked eye, do not show it)
Diorganized-disoriented attachment in Mary’s study
o Confused
o Does not really understand/notice exactly mother leaves, more confused by it than anything else
Harry Harlow and “The Wire Mother Experiment”
Before, bond was seen as attached to mother since mother provided food(but more than physical needs needed, need emotional connection)
- One mother with soft cloth, fun face
- Other with wire mother, kinda sterile/sharp looking
- Since many seen bond through food, Harlow gave food to both mothers
- Monkeys still cling to soft mother, even when taking food from wired mother
Contact Comfort
Defined from Harry Harlow/The Wire Mother experiment, contact between infants and caregivers is critical for normal social and emotional development
monkeys in study stunted socioemotionally(no good interactions with others and lots of shaking)
effect premature babies in isolation; risked to have contact comfort to thrive
Erik Eirkson’s 8 Stages of Psychological Development
Trust vs. Mistrust, Autonomy vs. Shame/guilt, Initiative vs. Guilt, Industry vs. Inferiority
Trust vs. Mistrust
Helpless infants depend on others for fulfillment of physical and emotional needs
Success: sense that world is predictable and friendly; learns to trust others
Failure: sense that world is unpredictable and sometimes hostile; carry concerns of trust throughout life
Autonomy vs. Shame/Guilt
1.5 to 3yrs
Children begin exerting independence and self-control
Success: develop independence and confidence
* Allows to do things themselves to a limit
* Like building with Legos
* Child fascinated with being able to click a marker closed
Failure: develop feelings of shame, low self-efficacy(cannot do certain things), reliance on other remains(much longer than necessary)
Initiative vs. Guilt
- Children begin to forge their own interests, friendships, and take on responsibilities
- Success: develop initiative and willingness to help and contribute
- Failure: develop feelings of anxiety, guilt and lack initiative
- Waiting to be told what to do
- Feel bad about not contributing in way its needed
Industry vs. Inferiority
6 to puberty, Children begin to develop academically, creatively, and intellectually; learn, work and achieve
- Success: develop work ethic and learn to enjoy learning
- Failure: develop feelings of inferiority, incompetence, and unproductivity
Authoritarian Parenting
restrictive and punitive; More about power and obeying, not so much about involvement
Authorative parenting
- limits but encourages independence
- Discussion of limits (not mentioned in above one) and why(like safety); Room for negotiation
- Very knowing of rules and they come from loving place
- Different kind of consequence, know where consequence is coming from
- More complex/thoughtful on how to guide children
Neglectful Parenting
not around
No love, warmth, or involvement
No support, so no rules
Permissive Parenting
No rules
BUT has love, warmth, and involvement
Kind of like spoiling behavior, but parent involved/very involved (helicopter parents)
Outcomes of children with Authoritarian Parenting
Lack social skills: trouble making friends and maintaining relationships
Poor initiative(ability to be self-starter); sit and waiting to be told what to do, wait for things to happen
Social comparisons: determine worth by comparison to other people
* Can effect self esteem depending on comparison of someone doing better or worse than others; false comparison
Outcome of Authoritative Parenting
Socially competent: maintain relationships
Self-reliant
Socially responsible: know responsibilities and owe up to them
Outcome of Neglectful Parenting
-Less competent
* Trouble making friends
-Show poor-self control
* Don’t know when to do and not do certain things; hard to determine what is appropriate
* Do not delay gratification, since nothing has been denied
Outcome of Permissive Parenting
Low competence
Lack respect
Entitlement
Low self-control
Issues with Parenting Styles
describing extreme outcomes; can have mixes, can have parents change over time, or other influences(friends, friend’s parents, coaches, teachers)