Exam 2 Flashcards
Mate Selection
the wide range of behaviors and social relationships individuals engage in prior to marriage and that lead to long or short term pairing or coupling
Anticipatory Socialization
socialization directed toward learning future roles
Dating
a process of pairing off that involves the open choice of mates and engagement in activities that allow people to get to know each other and progress toward coupling and mate selection
Courtship(Dating in Colonial Period)
a period of time in which two people spend intentional time together in order to get to know each other with the expressed purpose of evaluating each other as a potential life partner
Calling(Dating in Victorian era)
a male suitor who would be invited by the mother of the woman to call on a woman in her home
Going steady(1950s)
an exclusive dating relationship with one partner which is a middle stage between casual dating and engagement to be married
Hooking up(now):
a casual sexual encounter that can range from meeting with a friend, kissing, making out, touching, oral stimulation to sexual intercourse, but with no expectation of future emotional commitment
Women in Straight Relationships
rank favorable social status higher
- good financial prospects
Men in Straight Relationships
“good looks”/ “good health”; home life for themselves/children
Homogamy
the tendency to meet, date and marry someone very similar to ourselves in terms of important or desirable characteristics
- race/ethnicity
- education
- religion(in the past)
- political affiliation
Hypergamy
the tendency to marry upward in social status
- women have less upward social mobility, more likely to engage
Hypogamy
tendance to marry downward in social status
- men more likely to engage
Romantic love
the intense feelings, emotions and thoughts coupled with sexual passion and erotic expression that a person directs toward another
eroticism
concerning or intending to arouse sexual desire
Infatuation
a strong attraction to another person based on an idealized picture of that person
Intrusive Thinking
the distracted state in which you cannot concentrate on anything other than the object of your obsession
John Allen Lee
Three Primary Stages of Love: Storge, Ludas, Eros
Storge
a style of loving that is unexciting and uneventful, but focuses on companionship
Ludas
a style of loving that is more playful, nonposessive, less deep emotional commitment and lasting involvement