Exam 2 Flashcards
what is comparison level?
a standard representing what people feel they should receive in the way of rewards and costs from a particular relationship (ex: past experiences)
What is social penetration?
process of relationship bonding whereby individuals move from superficial communication to more intimate communication
what is comparison level for alternatives?
refers to the minimum level of relational rewards that an individual is willing to accept
-based on 2 criteria: rewards from alternative relationships or rewards from being alone
what is praxis?
humans are rational decision makers and the choices we make are influenced by 1. previous choices 2. choices of others and 3. cultural and social conditions
what is totality?
people in a relationship are interdependent
what happens to one person affects the other
social and cultural contexts like family and cultural norms that frame the relationship influence communication in the relationship
what is motion?
the changing nature of relationships over time
what are contradictions?
oppositions that are experienced in relationships
dialects are a result from contradictions
what is a collective boundary?
boundary around private information that includes more than one person
what is a personal boundary?
boundary around private information that includes just one person
what is boundary coordination?
how we manage private information that is co-owned
what is boundary linkage?
the connections that form boundary alliances between people
what is boundary permeability?
how much information can pass through the boundary
thick boundaries do not allow information to pass
thin boundaries allow all information to pass
what is the climate in which social penetration theory was developed?
during the 60’s and 70’s when being completely honest and candid was highly valued
what is the assumption about self disclosure in social penetration theory?
self disclosure can be either strategic or non strategic
stranger on a train is when people reveal private information in public places to complete strangers
what is breadth and depth of self disclosure?
breadth refers to the number of topics discussed in a relationshiop
depth refers to the degree of intimacy that guides topic discussions
what are the stage of social penetration?
orientation
exploratory affective exchange
affective exchange
stable exchange
what is the orientation stage in social penetration?
occurs at the public level, people are cautious about revealing too much information, behavior is guided by rules and norms
what is the exploratory affective exchange stage of social penetration?
communication becomes more spontaneous, private aspects of ones life becomes public, few relationships surpass this stage
what is the affective exchange stage of social penetration?
interactions are relaxed and casual, personal idioms (ways of expressing intimacy) are used
what is the stable exchange stage of social penetration?
communication is characterized by open expression of thoughts, feelings and behaviors which results in a high degree of spontaneity
dynamic uniqueness (humor, sarcasm) starts to emerge
few relationships reach this stage
outcome > CL > CLalt
satisfying and stable
outcome > CLalt > CL
satisfying and stable
CLalt> CL> outcome
unsatisfying and unstable
CLalt> outcome > CL
satisfying and unstable
CL > CLalt > Outcome
unsatisfying and unstable
CL > outcome > CLalt
unsatisfying and stable
what are the three exchange patterns?
given matrix
effective matrix
dispositional matrix
what is the given matrix
options available given internal and external factors
ex: personality and family influence
what is the effective matrix
represents the variety of alternative behaviors and outcomes that guide an individuals choice for behavior in the social exchange
(what you expected and what you have to match up)
what is the dispositional matrix?
how the rewards should be exchanged between two people
household duties and who pays when