Erich Fromm Flashcards
human dilemma
people experience this basic dilemma because they have become separate from nature and yet have the capacity to be aware of themselves as isolated beings
the goal of humans
reunite with our very basic nature but @ the same time, we cannot let go of what we already have
existential needs
- healthy people find answers to their existence–answers that more completely correspond to their total human needs
- healthy indivs. are better able to find ways of reuniting to the world by productively solving human needs
relatedness
- drive for union with another person/s
- three basic ways in which a person may relate to the world: submission, power, and love
- love is the only relatedness that can solve our basic human dilemma
transcendence
- defined as the urge to rise above a passive and accidental existence and into the “realm of purposefulness and freedom”
- people can transcend their passive nature either by creating life or destroying it
malignant regression
to kill for reasons other than survival
rootedness
establish roots or to feel home
fixation
- a tenacious reluctance to move beyond the protective security provided by one’s mother
- incestuous feelings are based in the “deep-seated craving to remain in, or to return to, the all-enveloping womb, or to the all-nourishing breasts”
sense of identity
capacity to be aware of ourselves as a separate entity. because we have been torn away from nature, we need to form a concept of our self
frame of orientation
a road map for humans to be able to act purposefully and consistently
non-productive frame of orientation
- no goal: erratic, unable to act purposefully
- follow irrational philosophies
burden of freedom
- free from the security of a fixed position
- results in basic anxiety
mechanisms of escape
because basic anxiety produces a frightening sense of isolation and aloneness, people attempt to flee from freedom through a variety of escape mechanisms
authoritarianism
- give up independence of one’s own individual self and to fuse one’s self with somebody or something outside oneself, in order to acquire the strength that the individual is lacking
- masochism and sadism
destructiveness
destroying other persons or nations, destructive people eliminate much of the outside world and thus acquire a type of perverted isolation
conformity
- people who conform try to escape from a sense of aloneness and isolation by giving up their individuality and becoming whatever people desire them to be
- more conforming = more powerlessness, more powerlessness = more conforming
positive freedom
- a person “can be free and not alone, critical and yet not filled with doubts, independent, and yet an integral part of mankind”
- represents a successful solution to the human dilemma of being part of the natural world and yet separate from it
twin components of positive freedom
love and work
character
- the most important acquired qualities of personality
- “the relatively permanent system of all non-instinctual strivings through which man relates himself to the human and natural world”
- substitute for instincts
people relate to the world in two ways
acquiring and using things (assimilation) and relating to self and others (socialization)
nonproductive orientations
- strategies that fail to move people closer to positive freedom and self-realization
- not entirely negative; has positive aspects
receptive
feel that the source of all good things lies outside of themselves and that the only way they relate to the world is to receive things
exploitative
aggressively take what they desire rather than passively receive it
hoarding
- seek to save that which they have already obtained
- hold everything inside and do not let go of anything; keep money, feelings, and thoughts to themselves
marketing
- see themselves as commodities, with their personal value dependent on their exchange value, that is, their ability to sell themselves
- the things that they market are superficial and shallow
productive orientation
- productive work, love, and thought
- healthy people value work not as an end in itself, but as a means of creative self-expression
biophilia
a passionate love of life and all that is alive; concerned with growth and development
personality disorders are marked by
a failure to love productively
necrophilia
- attracted to death
- destructive behavior is a reflection of their basic character
malignant narcissism
- everything belonging to a narcissistic person is highly valued and everything belonging to another person is devalued
- hypochondriasis: obsessive attention to one’s health
- moral hypochondriasis: preoccupation with guilt about previous transgression
narcissistic people possess what Horney called
neurotic claims
incestuous symbiosis
- extreme dependence on the mother or mother surrogate
- inseparable from the host person; their personalities are blended with the other person and their individual identities are lost
- unable to develop healthy relationships apart from the mother
syndrome of decay
- no chance or reuniting with nature
- no chance of developing healthy connections with other people
- no chance of developing a sense of identity