Emotion Coaching - Stem Statements

Question 1

I’m thinking that you’re pretty … at what she said

Answer 1

I’m thinking you are pretty annoyed at what she said about your mum.

Question 2

You seem …

Answer 2

You seem upset/mad/afraid.

Question 3

I’m guessing you feel … about this whole thing.

Answer 3

I’m guessing you feel sad about this whole thing.

Question 4

It seems like you’re … with me.

Answer 4

It seems like you’re frustrated with me.

Question 5

You look … by what just happened.

Answer 5

You look scared by what just happened.

Question 6

I can see you are …

Answer 6

I can see you are disappointed at not getting a seat on the couch.

Question 7

It’s alright to be … about that.

Answer 7

It’s alright to be worried about that.

Question 8

I reckon I’d feel … if that happened to me.

Answer 8

I reckon I’d feel furious if that happened to me.

Question 9

It’s OK to feel the way you do.

Answer 9

It’s OK to feel the way that you do.

Question 10

If somebody did that to me I’d feel …

Answer 10

If somebody did that to me I’d feel ripped off.

Question 11

You have good reason to be …

Answer 11

You have good reason to be disappointed.