East Indian Hindu Americans Flashcards
Dominant language
Hindi
Use english to help social mobility and compete in work force
Tone
Soft spoken
Sounds like a mumble
PDA
Frowned upon because its disrespectful to the gods
Touching among friends is also not socially acceptable
Eye contact
Men use it and become intense/loud when addressing family
Women draw their eyes downward to show respect to their husband, father, or grandfather
Direct refusal (NO)
Considered too harsh and open disagreement is likely to be interpreted as hostile or aggressive
Strangers greeting
With folded hands and a head bow
This respects their personal territory
Space
Big on Privacy
Rather be in a single sex room by themselves
Women should be offered long gowns especially when getting up
When speaking
Respect personal space by conversing an arms length away
Head
Dont touch head without permission
Head is holy
Social organization
Married sons live subject to parental rule in the parents household
House roles
Male responsible for finances and is leader
mother plays secondary role
Arranged marriages
Highly encouraged
Designed to strengthen the position of the family
Fasting
Observed on specific fays of week
Depends on the god the family worships
Oppression of women
Normalized
Hindu fathers
Perceived as being distant from children
Oldest brother or father
Held at highest on the hierarchy
Follow 4 class caste system
Brahmin: seen as pure
Kshatriva
Vaisvas
Harijans: seen as polluted and defiled