Difficult Relationships Flashcards
Do all problematic relationships reflect a vulnerability of the clinician?
Yes
Is how we feel about the relationship up to us?
Yes
What 4 things can we do to lessen the vulnerability?
- Fix what you can
- Be tolerant
- Get the advice of a colleague
- Listen on
What should we try to determine about silent patients?
Source of the silence
What might silence be due to?
Poor language skills, embarrassment, mental illness, etc
Should we allow for a warm up convo if the patient is just shy?
Yes
What can excessive talking suggest?
Euphoria, confusion, or a smokescreen to cover up sensitive info
What should we do for talkative patients?
Use more focused, short-answer-inducing questions
What is anger a response to?
Loss or a threat of a loss
What should we allow in angry or hostile patients?
Ventilation, empathy, resolution discussion, and if appropriate, an apology
Should we fight back?
No, explain my side (try RAPSAND)
Does anxiety share its source with anger?
Yes
What 5 ways can anxiety present?
- Denial (breast cancer example)
- Obsessiveness (list maker)
- Arrogance (I thought this was a REAL ER?!)
- Suspicion
- Regression (can you help me pull up my covers?)
What 4 responses should we have to anxiety?
- Bring attention to the anxiety
- Pay attention to attributions
- Try to understand its source
- Suggest new ways of coping
Are inebriated patients reliable to make informed decisions?
No; err on the side of what we feel is reasonable treatment
Should we be very careful and perform more tests on inebriated patients?
Yes
When should we release an inebriated patient?
When they are sober and well
What should we allow for in a crying patient?
Ventilation and explanation
What can crying represent?
Sadness, anger