Development Of Self Esteem Flashcards
What is self awareness
Knowing how you are feeling both physically and mentally, and being able to understand and explain why you are behaving in a certain way
What is self esteem
The way you feel about yourself and how confident you are
What is self confidence
How you believe and trust in yourself
What is self development
Setting and working towards reaching your goals of self improvement
Strategies to build your self confidence and improve yourself
Good communication skills
Assertive attitude
Complete tasks and projects
successfully by managing your time effectively
Participate in community organizations
Make good decisions
Four parts of self esteem - A psychologists view
A sense of belonging, where we feel part of a group or community. We do not feel isolated or alone
A sense of control, where we feel that we can control our lives, the things that happen to us and the way we respond to them
A sense of worthiness,where we feel that we are deserving of good things
A sense of dignity, where we have pride and respect for ourselves and others
If any of these four areas is weak or lacking, our self esteem becomes lower
Factors that influence self-awareness and self-esteem
What other people say about you
What happens in your life
How well you cope with challenges
How you respond to successes and failures
How popular you are
The media- newspapers, magazines, TV, and all other social media sources like Facebook etc
Having an assertive attitude
Say what you want to say clearly
Be positive and respectful
Know what you want
Have a tall and straight body posture
State your viewpoint clearly
Be polite
Good decision making skills
Evaluate the situation
Get information about the different options
Consider the consequences of each decision
Choose the best option
Act on your decision
Re-evaluate your decision
Balanced relationships
In a balanced relationship people have equal power. In an unbalanced relationship one person has power over the others.
Gender
Roles, behaviours, activities and qualities that society sees as suitable for men or women
Sex
Biological qualities that define men and women
Female and male
Groupings according to sex
Feminine and masculine
Grouping according to gender
Effects of forced sex in girls and women
Emotional and physical trauma from abuse or rape
Pregnancy(and the difficult decision as to what to do about it)
STi’s
HIV/AIDS