Deep Connection Answers Flashcards

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YOU: What do you do for a living?
HER: This
What’s the “little girl” approach.

A

Is that something you wanted to do when you where a little girl?

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YOU: What do you do for a living?
HER: This
What’s the “name 3” approach.

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Name 3 things you need to do to be really good at your job.
or
Tell me 3 things you would do to improve your job, to make it better for yourself.

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YOU: What do you do for a living?
HER: This
What’s the “change” approach.

A

Has your job changed you?

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YOU: What do you do for a living?
HER: This
What’s the “emotion” approach.

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Does your job put a smile on your face every day?

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YOU: What do you do for a living?
HER: This
What’s the “want vs push” approach.

A

Is that something you wanted to do? or something your parents pushed you to do?

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You read an attribute: She’s strong. “always been” Approach.

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I think you are a strong person. Have you always been strong or was it something you had to learn for yourself?

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HOBBIE: She likes something. “work in that” approach. For example: She likes to dance.

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Why don’t you become a professional dancer, you could get paid for doing what you love. Don’t you think?

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Interpreting a symbol. (Collar, a logo on her shirt, tatoo, etc)

A

I like that “symbol”, is very rare to see people wearing it. BUT IM CONFUSED, that represents two things, one is bla bla bla, and the second is bla bla bla, so tell me… which one is it?

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She works on television. How would you evoke the past?

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When you where a little child, did you like to be in the other side of the lens?

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“Most people” approach.

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Most people like to do “this”, but not you… I thinks is either because “this” or because “that”. So tell me, which one is your case.

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“Evoking the past” approach.

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“When you were a child…” “Have you always been like that?” “

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