Dating Flashcards

1
Q

Don’t focus on the disappointing aspects, instead ________.

A

feel lucky to have found the positive ones. (This is entitlement.)

From “Marry Him”

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2
Q

Think in terms of giving people points for their assets instead of ___________

A

mentally deducting points from people for their perceived negatives.

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3
Q

Shared values are more important than ________.

A

shared interests.

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4
Q

When thinking of preferred qualities in a mate, keep in mind the law of _______.

A

percentages.

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Q

Happy couples describe the early stages of their relationship more _______ over time, while couples who became less happy described those stages more ________ over time.

A

Positively, negatively.

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6
Q

Think of a list of why people wouldn’t want to _____.

A

Date you. You have bad qualities, too, and someone will likely have to give up some of their preferences if they pick you.

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6
Q

First impressions are not a strong predictor of _______.

A

Success. If someone has objectively good qualities, go out again.

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