Cultivate the soft life Flashcards
What is the main focus of a soft life approach?
Not overworking or overcatering to unwanted expectations.
What should you create around you to cultivate a soft life?
Creating beauty contributes to a magnetic presence.
What is a key aspect of feminine strength according to the text?
Knowing the power to either be small and disappear or to be large and exuberant
What is the relationship between hustling and living the soft life?
Choose happiness, to be in the present moment
What is advised regarding situations you don’t want to be in?
Do not be in them
What should your actions stem from according to the text?
A place of joy or softness and wanting to be there. This approach enhances personal satisfaction and reduces resentment.
What should you do with your best things?
Use them now.
Enjoyment of life should not be postponed.
What mindset should you avoid regarding living your life?
That you will start living when you reach a certain point
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What happens if you act like you want to struggle for someone’s love?
The struggle paradigm will continue to exist
A mindset to live by
Throw your hands up and say ‘If it’s not for me, let it miss me!’
How do you find your power according to the text?
By letting go of what is not meant for you
What does the principle ‘Discipline, not regret’ emphasize?
You need to do hard things. Do it today.
What is the importance of ‘The Art of detachment’?
You need to detach from outcomes, people, and situations. LET THINGS GO.
What should you know about yourself according to the concept of letting things go?
Know that you are okay as you are.
What does the principle ‘Never explain or complain’ suggest?
You do not need to keep speaking to people who do not listen to you.
How is silence viewed in the context of communication?
Silence is powerful.
What is a key difference in communication styles between men and women?
Men understand silence more than they understand talking; women connect through talk.
What does it mean to ‘Trust the universe’?
Trust that what is meant for you will not mess you.
Where should you find your joy according to the text?
In the people closest to you. You’re doing enough when you are just living in the moment with the people you love.
