Being her is a non-negotiable Flashcards
What do many women mistakenly believe about recognition?
Working harder and dedicating themselves more to others will secure recognition they seek
What happens if you consistently pour into others without taking care of yourself?
You will wear down to a shadow of your former self
What emotions can build up if you sacrifice yourself for others?
Bitterness and resentment
What is your primary responsibility according to the text?
Your primary responsibility is to yourself
How should women view themselves, according to the text?
You are not a workhorse, you’re a wonderful exotic creature who needs care
What should women do with their feelings?
Know your feelings and lean into them
What has been a long-standing issue for women regarding emotions?
Women have been shamed for having emotions
What should you avoid doing when dealing with hurt feelings?
Stop trying to out-logic men
What phrases should women get accustomed to using?
I feel, I want, I would like
What does being authentic to your feelings entail?
Being a difficult woman, as convenient women get left behind
Why do you need to be okay with being polarizing?
Some people will like you and some will not. That is okay.
Why is it important to have boundaries in a relationship?
You need to have things you will not succumb to. Men do not value women that make themselves convenient.
Why is it important not to be a people pleaser in your relationship?
When you go out of your way to let somebody walk all over you, you become replaceable because there are no limits to you.
what should you embrace?
Perpetual self improvement
How do you developed true depth and interest and allure?
Cultivating your mind and spirit, evolving over time, & the unique perspectives you bring to the conversation.
Find out what is not for you and eliminate it, focus on…
Your strengths
what type of lifestyle should you not push yourself into?
one that you do not belong to.
