communications exam three Flashcards
what is intimacy?
a close, familiar and usually an affectionate personal relationship
- intimacy increases as we communicate prive info
what is surface level info?
information on the outside
- (i go to uiuc, i live in chicago)
what is private info?
information on the inside
(my parents are divorced)
peripheral items are shared …
peripheral items are shared more frequently and sooner than private information
what was the percentage of people that shared intimate confidence?
2%
what was the percentage of people that shared semi private details?
19%
what was the percentage of people that shared public items?
65%
what was the percentage of people that shared nothing?
14%
self disclosure is…
self disclosure is reciprocal
(people engage in equal levels of openness)
communication is quick at the start but slows down quickly as …
communication is quick at the start but slows down quickly as private information is shared
what is depenetration?
depenetraction is a gradual process of communication withdrawal
how do we decide to share or withdraw?
- cost vs. rewards
- comparison levels
- comparison levels of alternates
what are cost and rewards?
- derived from social exchange theory
- where you weigh they benefits against the costs of disclosure
what are comparison levels? (CL)
- where you gauge relationship satisfaction compared to previous relationships
(am i happy/sad? are my expectations being met?)
what are comparison levels of alternatives?
- gauging whether it would be better with a prospective other
does the environment play a role in disclosure?
yes! you think differently in
- a dimly lit room w a candle
- crowded room w many people
what is the expectancy violation theory?
the theory that assumes individuals maintain expectations for behavior within a situation
(expectation is a strong belief for behavior ab what happens in future)
what is violation?
refers to a breach in expectations
what is the relational turbulence model?
a theory that focuses on the moments of change in a relationship and the resulting communicative, cognitive and behavioral outcomes of a change
what are transitions?
a factor or force that creates the potential for change in a relationship
(TRANSITIONS CAUSE TURBULENCE)
what are turbulences?
the experiences that come from a transition
what are the two categories of transitions?
- relational uncertainty
- partner interference
what are the categories of RELATIONAL UNCERTAINTY?
- self uncertainty
- relationship uncertainty
- partner uncertainty
what are some ideas of self uncertainty?
- whether YOU want the relationship to last
- if the relationship is important to YOU
- how much YOU are romantically interested in your partner