Chapter 9 - Focus on Adulthood Flashcards
Respect
Understanding and appreciation of all human beings and creatures in the world.
relationship
A connection between two or more people and their involvement and behaviour with one another.
belonging
The sense of feeling a part of something; a feeling of connectedness to other people or being involved in a community.
affection
The feeling and showing of emotions of love, support and care towards a person.
Types of relationships we are involved in:
- Parents
- Siblings
- Extended family
- Partner (boyfriend/girlfriend)
- Friends
- Teachers
- Sports coaches
What are healthy and respectful relationships built on?
- Equality
- Empathy
- Loyalty
- Security
- Safety
Roles you have to take on as a parent
- Changes in roles and relationships including less time to spend with your partner
- A shift in the demands on your time and energy levels
Changes in financial situation with increased financial costs - Adjustments to your normal routine, due to having to take three (or more) people into account rather than just two
Cost of children
Finances increase - food, upgrading to a bigger house, school, activities (sporting, music etc)
Responsibilities as a parent:
- Care for their child/children and spend time with them
- Love and protect, ensuring a sense of security
- Listen, support and provide guidance
- Teach values, morals and behaviours
- Provide food
Infertility
The inability to conceive a pregnancy after 12 months or more of regular unprotected sexual intercourse.
Emotional and mental impact for parents with infertility
- Time of stress, pressure and anxiety
- Those who can’t have a natural, normal pregnancy
- feel there’s something wrong with them
- Feeling of loss, grief and disappointment
- Relationship can become strained as one partner may - feel responsible and inadequate
Available social and emotional supports for parents
Maternal and Child Health Service :
- Exists to help parents meet the various challenges of parenthood
- Available at no cost to families of one or more children under school age
- Available in every government area in Victoria & each centre is staffed by trained maternal and child health nurses
- During sessions → nurse assesses child’s health and discuss and support the health and wellbeing on the mother
- May run open sessions which allow parents to drop in and discuss concerns they may have & parent groups which allow parents to meet new parents in the local area
Positive parenting:
Aim → to assist parents with parenting & to give parents the skills needed to prevent problems developing in their children in the first place
Perceptions
The way in which something is regarded, understood or interpreted.
- Vary within the community and are linked with stereotypes/expectations that change over time
- These expectations are often linked with geographical location, culture and community values
Developmental transitions during adulthood
- Establishing a good set of friends
- Forming a secure and positive identity
- Breaking emotional bonds with parents and achieving independence
- Setting career goals
Physical development during adulthood
- Body undergoes a range of physiological changes which is part of ageing
- Changes occur over a long period of time during adulthood and each change happens to individuals at different times in their lives
- Ageing is often linked with negative experiences