Chapter 9-12 Flashcards
What are the 5 attributes of Emotional Intelligence
- Self-awareness
- Self-regulation
- Motivation
- Empathy
- Social Skills
What is emotional intelligence?
The ability to understand and manage one’s own emotions and to be sensitive to others’ feelings.
Components of emotion
- Physiological changes
- Nonverbal behavior
- Cognitive Interpretation (how you feel add weight to your emotions)
- Verbal Expression
Components of emotion
- Physiological changes
- Nonverbal behavior
- Cognitive Interpretation (how you feel adds weight to your emotions)
- Verbal Expression
What are the influences of Emotion Expression
- Culture
- Personality
- Gender
- Social Conventions and Roles
- Mediated Communication
- Emotional Contagion
- Fear of Self-Disclosure
How to express emotions effectively?
- Recognize your feelings
- Choose the best language
- Share multiple feelings
- Recognize the difference between feeling and acting
- Accept Responsibility for your feelings
- Choose the best time and place to express your feelings
What is the difference between facilitative and debilitative emotions?
Facilitative emotions: Contribute to effective functioning (Joy /Love )
Delibilitative emotions: Hinder or prevent effective performance (Anger/Fear)
- More intense than facilitative, and has an extended duration
Define fallacies
Irrational thoughts that are accepted during the experience of debilitative feelings.
What are the types of fallacies?
- Fallacy of Perfection
- Fallacy of Approval
- Fallacy of Should
- Fallacy of Overgeneralization
- Fallacy of Causation
- Fallacy of Helplessness
- Fallacy of Catastrophic Expectation
Factors of attraction that influence our choice of relational partners
- Appearance
- Similarity
- Complementarity
- Rewards (differences in strengths to satisfy each other’s needs)
- Competency ( we are attracted to people who are good at what they do )
- Proximity (we develop relationships when we frequently interact )
- Disclosure
How relationships grow, develop and end? By Mark Knapp
COMING TOGETHER
1. initiating
2. experimenting
3. intensifying
4. Integrating
5. Bonding
COMING APART
1. Differentiating
2. Circumscribing
3. Stagnating
4. Avoiding
5. Terminating
What are the types of Friendships
- Short Vs Long Term
- Task Vs Maintenance Oriented
- Low Vs High Disclosure
- Low Vs High Obligation
- Infrequent Vs Frequent contract
Types of Gender in friendships
- Same-sex friendships
- Cross-sex friendships
- Friends with Benefits
What are dialectical tensions?
Conflicts that arise when two opposing or incompatible desires exist
What is metacommunication?
Communicating about communicating