Chapter 7: Parents and their School-Age Children Flashcards
Promoting School-Age Children’s Social-Emotional Development
What do parents often choose as the easiest years of childrearing? Why (3)?
7-11
- children master dozens of new skills
- children are able to learn quickly and think logically
- children live in a social world wherein most children think their parents are helpful, their teachers are fair, and their friends are loyal
Promoting School-Age Children’s Social-Emotional Development
What do school-age children experience in their broadening ventures in their neighbourhood and school? (5)
- greater vulnerability
- increasing competence
- ongoing friendships
- troubling rivalries
- deeper social understanding
Promoting School-Age Children’s Social-Emotional Development
What are elementary school children’s social-emotional development influenced by?
the degree to which their parents provide organized activities for them, and monitor their informal leisure activities
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
What do school-age children judge themselves as?
competent or incompetent
productive or failing
based on their level of success in mastering the skills valued by their parents and other significant adults
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
What do parents do to assist their children in their quest for competence? (4)
- encourage them to try out new things
- provide the materials and instruction needed to learn new skills
- pay attention to the progress they are making in developing competence in a particular area
- provide direct help when needed
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
What are 2 of the most meaningful activities for the development of skills and competencies during the school-age years?
sports
hobbies
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
What contributes to a child’s need for industry?
the discipline, self- direction, and sense of competence that come from working on a hobby or playing sports
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
What contributes to self-esteem and later identity development?
investing the necessary time to become knowledgeable about, or skillful, in activities (hobbies, sports) helps define for children the ways in which they are unique
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
What else can be beneficial for self-esteem?
increasing the frequency and quality of arts-based activities – ie. music, drama, or dance
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
What are social skills? (3)
- competence to modify behaviour in accordance with the social context
- ability to engage in interactions with adults and peers
- ability to use verbal expression appropriately
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
What does acquisition of social skills contribute to?
positive social and behavioural functioning
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
Why does modifying behaviour in accordance with social context involve a number of complexities?
as pointed out by Bronfenbrenner, the various systems in which the child is typically engaged become expanded during this developmental stage
another theoretical perspective to consider when contemplating the role of parents in the development of social skills is that the range of behaviours that are associated with social skills is culturally determined – reflect the culture of the child’s family and community
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
What is the most significant type of parent-child interaction for supporting children’s self-esteem, as well as their positive interactions with others?
effective parent–child communication
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development – Co-regulation
What provides the foundation for parent-child co-regulation of behaviour as children enter elementary school?
self-regulation acquired during the preschool years
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development – Co-regulation
What is due to children’s advances in cognitive development?
children are prepared for a greater sharing of social power during middle childhood
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development – Co-regulation
What does parent–child co-regulation become a predominant aspect of?
appropriate child socialization during middle childhood developmental stage
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
What are some advantageous outcomes of parent-child co-regulation?
- contributes to early behaviour adjustment, which assists children in all their social relationships (including those with parents, siblings, and friends)
- associated with fewer behavior problems in school-age children
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
Example of Co-regulation
Charlie: “Mom, can I invite Miguel over for dinner?”
Mom: “Sure. Will you make sure he checks with his parents to be sure that it is okay.”
Charlie: “Okay, Mom.”
Parental Influences on Their Children’s Psychosocial Development
Should the entire parent-child relationship be co-regulated?
NO
essential that parents of school-age children continue to structure their children’s daily activities, monitor their whereabouts, require certain levels of responsible behavioUr, and step in to exercise more control when necessary
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships
What are some characteristics of children who are liked and accepted by their peers (popular)?
- more positive social traits
- better social problem-solving skills
- more constructive social behaviour
- better friendship relations
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Childrearing Patterns
What is authoritative parenting linked with?
- more positive relationships with their peers (compared to authoritarian, permissive, indulgent, or uninvolved)
- encouragement of children’s participation in decision making appears to provide them the experience needed to engage in thoughtful and responsible behaviours when interacting with their peers
- behavioural control of parents promotes ability to use self-regulation in social situations
- related to children’s behaviors that reflect empathy and altruism
- more positive social functioning with family members and peer
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Childrearing Patterns
What is authoritarian parenting linked with?
- less socially adept
- more at risk for behaviour problems
- social problems attributed to parents’ overly strict and often harsh use of discipline (physical, often supported by cultural beliefs)
- greater use of physical punishment was consistently associated with more aggression and anxiety in children
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Childrearing Patterns
What is permissive parenting linked with?
- more difficulties in peer relationships due to their typically immature behaviours
- often lack impulse control and show less social responsibility
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Childrearing Patterns
What is uninvolved parenting linked with?
- suffer socially
- experience problems in developing and sustaining friendships with other children because they low levels of affection and often endure high levels of criticism and hostility from their parents
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Attachment
What is one of the differences between parental attachment of preschool and school-age children?
from early to middle childhood, there is a steady decline in the utilization of attachment figures
however, child’s perceptions of parent availability do not change
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Attachment
Who do children typically turn to to meet attachment needs and companionship needs?
attachment – parents
companionship – peers
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Attachment
How does the awareness of parental availability play out in school-age children’s peer relationships?
- children’s perceptions of security from both parents were related to others’ appraisals of children’s social competence
- children with perceived security to fathers displayed lower levels of aggression
- parents continue to serve secure-base functions for school-age children with secure attachment
- children who view relationships with parents as less secure are more likely to select peers to fulfill attachment functions
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Context
What are the links between community and parental support?
as neighbourhood conditions worsen, parental emotional support is weakened
as surrounding environments become poorer and more dangerous, parents tend to rely more on physical discipline
negative effects of neighbourhood disadvantage are compounded also when there are high levels of parent-child conflict
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Context
What are the consequences of a highly negative social climate for children?
more internalizing and externalizing problems
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Context
What factors mediate adverse effects of parenting in at-risk communities?
- opportunities for community involvement contributes to fewer behaviour problems
- community social support contributes to more positive parenting behaviours and fewer behaviours problems among children
- high level of parental involvement is associated with fewer behaviour problems in all types of neighbourhoods – when parents encourage their children to express their opinions and take their children’s views into consideration, children exhibit lower levels of internalizing and externalizing behaviours
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Structure Leisure Activities
What types of activities are we considering here?
- sports
- music
- band
- dance
- drama
- crafts
- scouting
- church, synagogue or mosque activities
- recreational camps
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Structure Leisure Activities
What do these activities help children do?
achieve peer group status, while broadening their scope of learning
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Structure Leisure Activities
What does being involved in organized peer group activities do? (3)
- extends children’s peer group interactions beyond the classroom
- provides opportunities to interact with other children who share their interests
- creates chances to make and sustain positive peer relationships
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Structure Leisure Activities
What is a cultural advantage of participating in activities?
activities often provide opportunities for children to learn about cultural practices other than their own and develop friendships with children from a variety of cultural backgrounds
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Structure Leisure Activities
In what ways does participation in organized physical activity benefit children’s sense of well-being? (4)
- elevated self-confidence, more involvement with school
- fewer behaviour problems
- less likelihood of taking drugs
- decreased probability of engaging in risky behaviour
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Structure Leisure Activities
What does sports participation do for shy children?
plays a protective role
over time show a significant decrease in anxiety
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Structure Leisure Activities
Is sports activity related to depression?
depressive symptoms are higher for children not playing sports outside of school or otherwise engaged in activities that require high levels of physical activity
Parental Influences on Children’s Social Relationships – Structure Leisure Activities
Describe differences in children’s involvement in adult-supervised activities.
middle-class parents arrange out-of-school activities to cultivate their children’s talents
working-class and poor parents leave the arrangement of leisure activities to the children themselves