Chapter 10: Middle-Age and Older Parenthood and Grandparenthood Flashcards
Social Status Transitions
When do these transitions occur?
beginning in early adulthood
Social Status Transitions
What do these transitions do?
alter relationships of middle-age adults and their adult children
Social Status Transitions – Normative
What do normative transitions of adult children do?
contribute to increased intergenerational closeness and contact
Social Status Transitions – Normative
When do parent-child relationships generally improve?
when adult children go off to college, begin careers, get married, and have children
Social Status Transitions – Normative
What are the two factors that are attributed to the positive changes that occur in intergenerational relations when adult children experience normative transitions?
- transitions verify that the adult child is conforming to social norms in terms of maturational development
- transitions themselves increase the number of adult social roles that adult children share with their parents
Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
What do non-normative transitions tend to do?
negatively affect parent and adult-child relationships
Social Status Transitions
What are middle-age parents experiencing as their young adult children are making normative and non-normative transitions into their adult roles?
they also are experiencing normative and non-normative transformations in their own lives
social status transitions in the lives of both generations affect their relationships with each other
Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
What is one of the main factors in parental conflict when generations share a home?
adult children’s unemployment
Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
What effect does having at least one co-residential adult child do to parents?
decreases the psychological well-being of middle-age parents, especially mothers
Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
Perceptions of what is linked to parental frustration for both parents?
lack of career success
Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
Perceptions of what is primarily associated with mothers’ negative emotions? Why?
lack of relationships success
mothers tend to feel more responsibility for their adult children’s relationship problems, particularly their daughters’ unsuccessful relationships
Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
What do fathers tend to accept more responsibility for?
children’ lack of career success
Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
What do mothers tend to accept more responsibility for?
relationship problems, particularly their daughters’ unsuccessful relationships
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Transition to Grandparenthood
What is a universal social status transition, and what effect does it have?
occurs when parents become grandparents
generally has a positive effect on both middle-age persons and their adult children
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Transition to Grandparenthood
What are some non-normative transitions of middle-age parents?
divorce
remarriage
Social Status Transitions – Normative
What are positive effects of normative transitions due to?
- such transitions verify the conforming to social norms
- transitions themselves increase the number of adult social roles that adult children share with their parents
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Transition to Grandparenthood
What is one of the reasons that middle-age adults derive high level of satisfaction from the role of grandparent?
they bring more energy and financial resources to the grandparent role than did grandparents a generation ago
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Transition to Grandparenthood
What is grandparent satisfaction related to?
continued development of generativity
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Transition to Grandparenthood
What predicts greater satisfaction?
- increasing levels of generativity
- role of valued elder and the meanings that these grandparents attached to this role
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Transition to Grandparenthood
Why is the grandparent role significant?
- one of the few new roles that can be embraced in later phases of life
- offers many opportunities for continued adult socialization
- role is invested with important, therefore has a greater impact on mental health than less important roles
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Transition to Grandparenthood
What are some non-normative social status transitions in the lives of middle-age adults?
- divorce and remarriage
- serious illness
- disability
- death of spouse
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
What are divorced fathers more prone to (than married fathers)?
less regular contact with their adult children
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
What are divorced mothers more prone to (than married mothers)?
more apt to experience increase in contact with adult child
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
What are financial transfers to adult children affected by?
- divorce
- gender of parent
- remarriage
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
Who is as likely to provide financial assistance to their adult children as parents who are not divorced? Who is not?
single fathers, single mothers, and remarried mothers are as likely to provide financial assistance to their adult children
remarried fathers give significantly less to their biological children
remarried mothers give more to their biological children
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
What are some risk factors that influence adult children’s reactions to parental divorce?
- longer parental marriage (more emotionally or socially unsettling)
Effects of Middle-Age Parents’ Social Status Transitions – Non-normative
What are some protective factors that influence adult children’s reactions to parental divorce?
- lengthier period of time taken for parents to consider a divorce (allows preparation for divorce)
Influence of Role Transitions on the Relationships of Older and Middle-Age Adults
How do older persons and their children’s relationships vary?
- residential proximity
- frequency of interactions
- mutual aid
- feelings of affection
- beliefs regarding filial obligation
Effects of Older Adults’ Normative Role Transitions on the Relationships with Their Children and Grandchildren
What are the two primary normative transitions of older adults?
- retirement
- widowhood
Effects of Parental Retirement
What kind of support do older parents require from them children?
- minimal support in coping with retirement
Effects of Parental Retirement
Whom does retirement have no significant effects on?
relationships of older adults and their children and grandchildren with whom they continue to have frequent contact through visits, telephone calls, e-mail, and social media
Effects of Parental Retirement
What factors influence the degree to which parents interact with their adult children and grandchildren?
- geographic distance between parents and children
- gender of retired parents
- presence or absence of grandchildren
Effects of Parental Retirement
How does geographic distance between parents and children influence the degree to which retired parents interact with their adult children and grandchildren?
children living within 10 miles:
- mothers’ retirement is associated with fewer visits
- fathers’ retirement is associated with more visits
children living more than 10 miles away:
- mothers increase their visits
- fathers decrease their visits
Effects of Parental Retirement
How does presence of absence of grandchildren influence the degree to which retired parents interact with their adult children and grandchildren?
- retired mothers are more likely to visit their children who have children living in the household
- retired fathers are more likely to visit their childless children
Parental Retirement – few changes in relationships between older parents and their children
Parental Widowhood more changes in relationships between older parents and their children
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Parental Widowhood
How does spousal loss change older adult-child relationship?
- increases older adults’ dependence on their children
- decreases their children’s dependence on the surviving parent
Parental Widowhood
What are the gender differences in dependence?
compared to widowers, widows rely more on their children for financial aid and/or financial and legal advice, yet provide more emotional and instrumental support
Parental Widowhood
What does instrumental support of adult children include?
variety of tangible supports such as child care, housekeeping, and transportation