Chapter 7 & 8 Flashcards

1
Q

According to research, what % of people told some sort of lie on a daily basis.

A

91%

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2
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In research which Desomnd Morris conducted, what was noticed about the nurses which were told to lie.

A

They did more hand to face gestures.

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3
Q

When there is a lack of congruence between body signals and facial expressions, which is telling the truth?

A

The body.

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4
Q

What is the boredom cluster?

A

Hand supporting the head from falling down.

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5
Q

What is an evaluation gesture?

A

Closed hand, resting on the chin or cheek w/ index finger pointing up.

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6
Q

What does chin stroking represent?

A

It represents a person going through the decision making process.

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7
Q

What did Gerard Nierenberg, of the Negotiation Institute, find when assessing people that rub their forehead vs. people that rub their neck.

A

People that rub their forehead tend to be easy going and open, while the neck rubbers are typically more negative or critical.

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8
Q

What does the eyebrows raised (eyebrow flash) show?

A

Non-threatening, submissiveness.

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9
Q

When should you use the eyebrow flash?

A

Use on people you like and/or people you want to like you.

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10
Q

What does lowering of the eyebrows show?

A

A show of dominance, or aggression towards others.

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11
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When we talk, what percentage of the time are we gazing?

A

40%-60% of the time.

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12
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When we listen what percentage of the time are we gazing?

A

80% of the time.

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13
Q

What percentage of gazing should be done to build rapport.

A

60%-70% of the time.

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14
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What do darting eyes typically represent?

A

The person is bored and looking for an escape route.

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15
Q

Where does one look when doing a social gaze?

A

A triangular area between the eyes and mouth for about 90% of the time.

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16
Q

Where does one look when doing an intimate gaze?

A

A triangular are between the eyes and lower body. In close encounters, between the eyes and chest.

17
Q

When should one use a power gaze?

A

Only on people you want to intimidate, or a person who wont shut up.

18
Q

Where does one look when doing an power gaze?

A

A triangular area between the eyes and the forehead.

19
Q

When someone is recalling something they saw, where will that person look?

A

Up and to the left.

20
Q

When someone is recalling something they heard, where will that person look?

A

To the side, typically left.

21
Q

When someone is recalling a feeling, where will that person look?

A

Down and to the side, typically right side.

22
Q

When someone is talking to oneself, where do they look?

A

Down and to the left.

23
Q

What did the Wharton study find about retention of verbal presentations?

A

Only 10% is remembered.

24
Q

What did the Wharton study find about retention rate for verbal and visual presentation?

A

50% of what is said is remembered.

25
Q

What should you do when you want to control what a person is looking at?

A

Use a pen to point where you want the person to look, and verbalize what they see.