chapter 6 Flashcards
entitlement, not at the expense of others
assertive behavior
giving up entitlement in order to satisfy others
non-assertive behavior
entitlement at the expense of others
aggressive behavior
premise that everyone has certain basic rights
assertion theory
basic rights
say no and not feel guilty, change your mind, tkae your time to form a response to a comment or question, ask assistance, ask what you want.
body language consistent with verbal assertiveness
nonverbal assertiveness
describe situation, express feelings, specify change, consequences of the outcome, regardless of change
verbal assertiveness
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describe a situation, express feelings, specify change, consequences of the out come, regardless of change
conflict resolution techniques
Active/reflective listening (repeat words/feelings, paraphrase) Identify your position (state thoughts and feelings) explore alternative solutions: brainstorm
tangible support
money and car
emotional support
care and concer
informational support
advice
appraisal support
enable self evalution
how social support may help manage stress in two ways:
direct effect theory, stress buffering theory
theory that prevent stressors from occuring
direct effect theory