Chapter 5: Social Development Flashcards
Define intimacy
Which means establishing closeness with another person which develops from self disclosure the process by which one shares their thoughts feelings and experience with another
What is a genital relationship
Relationship based on sexual intimacy without emotional intimacy
How is loved defined
Aristotle defined love as being composed of a single soul inhabiting 2 bodies.
Mature love says I need you because I love you Erich Fromm
Discuss the assortive mating Theory
Views choosing a love partner based on Similar characteristics which occurs in many dimensions like religious beliefs physical traits age socio-economic status intelligence and political ideology
Personality related characteristics play an important role later in relationship which requires coordination with tasks issues and problems of daily living
Define attachment
It is a strong affectional tie that binds people together
What is the attachment theory proposed by John Bowlby
The assumption of attachment theory is that people construct internal working models Which are representations of themselves and others which guide processing of social info and behavior in relationships
Discuss the internal working model theory
Secure internal working model individual feel good about themselves and others
Preoccupied internal models have a positive view of others but feel unlovable. They seek closeness to others to validate their self worth but are highly fearful of abandonment and become overly dependent on their partners
Dismissing internal working model have positive view of self but lack trust dismissing the importance of close relationship and keep partners at distance.
Fearful internal working model have a negative of themselves and of others displaying confusing unpredictable mix of neediness and fear of closeness
The presence or absence of the 3 components of triangular model of love can lead to what
Liking: includes intimacy where passion and commitment are absent
Infatuation: based on passion but intimacy and commitment lacks
Empty love: based on commitment but lacking passion and intimacy
Romantic love: includes passion and intimacy without commitment
Fatuous love: based on passion and commitment without intimacy
Companionate love: characterised by intimacy and commitment without passion
Consumate love: has commitment passion and intimacy
Explain the equity theory
Suggests that close relationship or romances are formed because the people involved believe that what they are getting out of the relationship is proportional to what they put in. It assumes people count the costs involved.
Discuss Robert’s Sternberg triangular theory of love
He suggested that love is complex and doesn’t occur in a single form but consists of 3 components mainly passion intimacy and commitment
Passion is characterized by intense emotions felt towards another. Is characterized by infatuation referring to state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion creating feelings of excitement ecstasy and euphoria along with uncertainty anxiety and jealousy
Intimacy refers to developmental of reciprocal trust openness and acceptance
Commitment is a conscious decision to maintain love care and support each other
What characteristics do securely attached adults have
- More supportive of partner
- More likely to practice safe sex
- Less upset when under stress
- More likely to seek support
- More likely to compromise in conflict
- Less likely to be depressed
- More likely to have good self esteem
- less likely to abuse spouse
- Less likely to divorce
What is a social network
It is an extended group of people who share the same interests and Interact with each other for mutual support assistance and exchange of info.
It refers to the structural characteristics of an individual’s social relationships including size stability type of relationship and frequency of contact with people who are part of it.
What are the advantages of social networks
What are the disadvantages of social networks
Provide support such as financial emotional and expressive support
Members tend to be physically healthier and experience greater psychological well-being
Conflict
What is the social convoy model
Based on social role and attachment theory where each person moves through life surrounded by convoy of people who play a central role in network of social relationships support and guidance.
State the social exchange theory
Proposes that Social behavior is the result of an exchange process suggesting people evaluate rewards and risks of each relationship either consciously or subconsciously.
The rewards refers to positive values like sense of acceptance support and companionship
The risks refers to negative values like disapproval and forms of punishment.
Expand on the forms of reciprocity
Direct reciprocity refers to returning same type of support within a limited period
Indirect reciprocity occurs when support is returned through an intermediate party
Generalised reciprocity occurs when network members give support without expecting it to be necessarily returned in same proportion of same people.
What is the socio-emotional selectivity theory
Social contact is motivated by info seeking and emotional regulation which shift as one goes through life.
During young adult info seeking occurs by exploring the world gathering info about cares interests and trying to determine where one belongs
For older adults emotional regulation become the main goal where quantity of relationship decrease but the quality remains stable
Discuss the social capital Theory
The members of one’s family and social group is called social capital and refer to the set of intangible resources in family and community that helps people with stress developes potential take opportunity and express aspirations beyond immediate context
Decision to invest or not in relationship is partially based on present costs and possible future benefits. People leave relationship that are high cost and low benefits
Elaborate on social networks in cyberspace
Due to technology people find themselves in the real and vertual world.
This may help people to communicate with family and friends and meet new people
Loneliness and depression can be alliviated as it provides communication with others
Helps escape from problem
It can help improve critical thinking skills creativity and self esteem
Define civil marriage
A legally recognized union between a man and a woman
Explain a customary marriage
The spouses are married in accordance with the indigenous traditions and customs
What is a religious marriage
One that takes place in terms of religious requirements
What is civil union
It is a specific form of marriage also called a legalised partnership where couple have the same Marital rights responsibility and consequences as in a civil marriage
What possible causes are there for a decline in marriages in SA
A new broad minded way of thinking has developed where marriage is losing status and referred to a piece of paper
Marriage has lost status in law as legal reforms have led to greater recognition of equality and neutrality in issues of common law marriage cohabitation and child care/ custody
Marriage has significant financial implications eg labola
As more occupational and educational opportunities become available women become more career orientated regarding this as more important than marriage
Discuss the importance of labola in traditional African marriage
Labola can be regarded as a social symbol with spiritual links to unite 2 families and is accepted as a culturally legal and valid union and marriage
It serves as compensation
What is meant by interracial intercultural or intergroup marriage
It is a form of marriage outside a specific social group involving spouses who belong to different socially defined or racial ethnicities.
What is same sex marriage
Refers to the matrimonial union of individuals who are of the same biological sex.
What are the possible advantages of marriage
Married people generally seem more physically and psychologically healthy than those seperated divorced single or widowed.
Married people tend to live longer
Marriage provides source of intimacy friendship love sexual fulfillment companionship and emotional support
Marriage offers opportunities to grow emotionally through bond stronger and more mutual than sibling bond friendship
Marriage brings economic and financial advantages
Marriage is generally regarded as best environment to raise children
State the 7 type of marital relationship
The vitalised relationship: where both partners experience a high degree of satisfaction regarding all aspects of marriage
The financially focused relationship where partners bound by material and financial goals also experienced dissatisfaction in other aspects of marriage
Conflicted relationship where partners experience dissatisfaction with issues relating to the partners themselves but are satisfied with external aspects like leisure time activities
The harmonious relationship is characterized by satisfaction with personal aspects relating to partner but less satisfaction with external aspects like leisure time activities
The traditional relationship is where partners experience stress in relationship but a great deal of satisfaction regarding family and religious values
The balanced relationship where partners are generally satisfied with most aspects of marriage regardless of certain problem at time.
What factors may contribute to a successful marriage?
Age and maturity of partners:
Similarity: partners sharing similar interests attitudes and goals. Similar socio economic religion ethnicity race and age group.
Marital equity: which is the extent to which couples experience equality in the relationship.
Effective interaction: enjoying eachother liking eachother having respect and trust for eachother. Good communication where thoughts feelings ideas wishes are shared
Personality: positive personality characteristics like self confidence maturity self concept and ability to be nurturing
Sexual intimacy: sexual behaviour and satisfaction remain important during the adult life span and plays a significant role in happiness