Chapter 4: Intimate Relationships and Communication Flashcards
Recognize that human emotions have two components:
Physiological arousal – physical response to feelings of love
Emotional explanation for the arousal – some feelings are too intense for people to handle
The Transformation of Love
All relationships change over time.
At first, high levels of passion and increased intimacy are apparent.
Reduction of romance and/or passion can lead to the development of deep love over time naturally
Challenges in Relationships
Honesty and openness Unequal or premature commitment Unrealistic expectations Expecting your partner to change Assuming Unsupported beliefs Competitiveness Focus on fun activities together Balance of time together and apart Jealousy (especially in young couples) due to personal insecurities
Cohabitation –
living together without marriage
30 years old
Half of all men and women have cohabited
Parenting styles Authoritarian Authoritative Permissive (or indulgent) Uninvolved
Authoritarian
Authoritative
Permissive (or indulgent)
Uninvolved
U.S. Census Bureau
27% of all children under 18 live
with only one parent
Values associated with successful families include:
Commitment Appreciation Communication Time together Spiritual wellness Coping with stress and crisis