chapter 4 - Bowen Family Systems Therapy An Intergenerational Approach to Family Therapy Flashcards

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what is a fused relationshoip

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a relationshiop that does not afford any autonomy (very emotionally reactive)

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what did BOWEN say are the two counterbalancing life forces

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individuality and togetherness

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what are the 5 concepts of BOWEN’s multigenerational network of family systems

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differentiation of self
triangulation
multigenerational emotional processes
emotional cutoff
societal emotional processes

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define differentation of self

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ego strength - response over reaction. flexible and adaptive thinking

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what emotion creates triangles

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anxiety

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how is triangulation presented in a couple

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due to the anxiety it creates deflection and avoidance perpetuating the underlying issue rather than allowing a direct approach to the matter.

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what response does fusion cause from the children

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parents are too much so they are emotionally cut off

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define emotional cutoff

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removing emotional conectivity with another so it is all projected onto another

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what 4 things result from a fused family

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emotional distance
physical/emotional challenges
conflict
projection of issues onto kids

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what is the primary task of the leaving home stage from CARTER AND MCGOLDRICK

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separate from family without cutting them off (balanced approach)

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what is the primary task of the joining of families through marriage stage

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commitment to new couple (Transforms both of their systems)

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what stage has the highest divorce rate

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families with young children

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what iissue is likely to come up for parents whne they are launching their childrne and moving on

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midlife crisis

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what creates disorcers

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too much stress due to lacking differentiation (less resilient/less mature)

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what increases functional differentiation (resiliency)

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quality of current relations

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to BOWEN what causes disorders

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emotional fusion between generations (reactive, rather than critical thinking)

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where do symptoms occur the most (think x and y axis)

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when vertical anxieties (x axis) meet with horizontal stress (y axis - transition points in life)

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are people likely to mate with others of similar levels of differentiation

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what is the major goal of therapy for BOWEN

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client to understand themselves and solve their own issues with a focus of the therapist on the processes and the strucutres (network of triangulation)

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what are the 2 steps to breaking down triangles

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increase ability to manage stress

fortify functioning by increased ability to operate with less stress

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2 primary mechanisms of change in BOWEN

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distringuish thinking vs. feeling
identify one’s role in the interpersonal process
(increased understanding)

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define genogram

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schematic diagram that shows our relationships of a family system

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what technique does the BOWEN theory use mainly

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process questions (slow down people to think and feel about how they are living)

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what ist he most common triangle during early marriage

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in law triangle

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define wedding gift triangle
husband turns relationship he has with his mother into the relationship he has with his wife (wife bcomes new mom)
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define the olyalty alignment triangle
during marriage whereas partner and parents remain too close and spouse is left outside of relationship
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describe dominant father in law triangle
wife and her idealized father criticize her husband. (her father is a living myth)
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define relationship experiment for BOWEN
experiment with new responses to things so that they are not always emotionally reactive
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what does focus on the content say about the therapist
they are emotionally entangled (non objective)
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how do you address a pursuer-distancer dynamic
address the pursurers want to pursue (their inner emptiness) never chase a distancer
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how do you prevent yourself from being triangulated
recognize countertransference and differentiate yourself.
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what kind of language demonstrates neutroality for the therapist
i statements (allows couple to be autonomous and define self to one another)
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what are 3 ways we might recognize triangulation
repetitive pattern that is reactive and automatic
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