Chapter 4 & 5 Test Flashcards
the early church celebrated in the
same way that local cultures had for centuries
during the early church the father of the bride
handed over his daughter to the groom
during the early church the bride wore
a ceremonial gown viel
during the early church the couples
joined their right hands
during the early there was the exchange of
rings
in the seventeenth century the church became more
involved in wedding ceremony
17th century- who gave nuptial blessing
bishop or priest
what was the nuptial blessing
intended for bride and marriage covenant
taking place after couple gets married
during the 17th century was happen with the wedding ceremony
developed into a liturgical rite perfomrmed at church rather than in a home
during middle ages ceremonies became
very formal
what did that help counteract
the abuses of secret marriges
in the 12th century the church made what explict
that marriage is one of the seven sacraments
the 12th century church taught
marriage was to be a sacrament lasting until death of a spouse and prohibited divorce and remarriage
when does preparation for marriage begin
during infancy and extends through childhood and adolescences
in an arranged marriage one family makes
an agreement to promise their daughter to the son of another family
in an arranged marriage it was understood that love
was to follow and grow out of marriage
what is common when meeting a person
infatuation that leads to friendship
first two predictors of marriage
- that the spouse came from similar backgrounds
- that the spouse had parents with long and successful marriages
one benefit of dating
man and women get to know each other by sharing many varying activities and experiences together
another benfeit of dating
gives two people a chance to see if they are compatible
what gives a better chance of having a good relationship
come from same social group
same or similar values
practice same religion
similar interest
what questions should a person ask if getting seriosu
how does partner treat me?
how does he treat other?
im i proud to marry in front of everyone?
do i want to have kids and raise them with this person?
marriage is permitted in the perish where one of the persons
lives or has established at least a month long residence
what do civil laws determine
legality of marrige
what is an example
age requirements vary state to state
what laws do church set for marriage sacrament
mature age
unmarried
willing to have children
freely giving consent to marriage
why is matrimonial consent most important
determines the validity of the marriage
why does the priest interview the couple seperatley
to find of if impediments exsist
what age is invalid for men and women
men under 16
women under 14
invalid marriges
priest
not being physically capable of sex
bloodline
if not catholic permission must come from
local bishop
catholic partner must promise
that he or she will do all in his or her power to have children baptized and raised catholic
what does pre marriage inventory help gauge the couple of
the effectiveness of their communication with one another
FOCCUS meaning and what it is
facilitating open couple communication understanding with one another; widely used inventories
pre cana
weekend retreat, series of classes, parish based program
a time to listen and reflect before meeting with future spouse
marriage is modeled on
faithfulness Yahweh exhibited in his covenant with the Israelite in the old testament
marriage is an
agreement between the couple and god
marriage reflects the
new covenant established by Christ at the last supper and with his death on the cross
when is marriage usually celebrated
during mass because it is in Eucharist that the new covenant is realized
what importance does liturgy of the work show
christian marriage in the history of salvation
what is the grace is the sacrament of matrimony
the promise that Christ will remain present in the married life
unconditional and everlasting love is the love that
god showed through humanity through the incarnation in Jesus and the redemption that Christ brings to the world
what kind of love do wife and husband share
unconditional and everlasting
through unconditional love wife and husband reproduce
in their children the very image of christ
some issues that can occur in the first year of marrisge
in- law issues financial issues social issues communication issues sexual issues
how can those problems be dealt with
keeping an open mind is important beware of differing personalities keep channels of communication open love one another pray togehtet
for a marriage to work what must happen
each spouse will have to give up something of their previous self
sex in marriage is meant to be
unitive and procreative
sex helps maintain what
marriage by fostering intimacy, providing emotional security and reducing stress
the couple must learn from each other how to make sex
pleasurable and satisfying for both
catholic couples must be open
to having children
popular culture today associates sex with
just pleasure
natural planning is the only
morally acceptable way of not having a baby
church doesn’t agree with
surrogate mothers, or anything other than adoption when it comes to couples that convceive
if cant conceive then
devote yourself to servivce
what responsibility do parents have
to educate their children morally and spiritually
how is this done
by creating a home where there is tenderness, forgiveness, compassion and respect
how can you do tht
share meals together
what responsibility does the society have
defend family life
john Paul II says
no one is without a family in this world: the church is a home and family for everyone
incarnation
the taking on of human nature by gods son
conjugal love
the total love between a husband and wife that encompassed their entire being body and soul
contraception
a method of preventing pregnancy that is intended to alter or avoid the body natural state of fertility
coitus
a term for sexual intercourse between man and women
continence
partial or complete abstinence from sexual activity
surrogate mohter
a women who carries another women child by prearrangement or by legal contract
ovulation
the time in a women fertile cycle when an egg is released from her ovary
discipline
a process if training that is expected to produce acceptable pattern of behavior as well as improved mental and social character
holy family
the family of Joseph, Mary, and Jesus
impediments
external circumstances or facts that prevent a sacramental or legal marriage from taking place
domestic church
name for the family the church miniature
convenant
a sacred and unbreakable agreement between human beings or between god and a human being that involves mutual commitments
