Chapter 11: Attraction And Intimacy

Question 1

The desire to Connect with others in enduring dose relationships is:

Answer 1

The need to belong.

Question 2

The term for excluding someone is:

Answer 2

Ostracize

Question 3

Which of these factors nurture liking & loving?

Answer 3

Similarity & proximity

Question 4

When choosing Whom to approach for a date, people often approach someone who

Answer 4

Roughly matches their attractiveness

Question 5

A teen has a deep desire to connect with others in close relationships. Inns teen is exhibiting:

Answer 5

The need to belong

Question 6

Richard is being excluded from the group. He is being:

Answer 6

Ostracized

Question 7

_______ the similarities between husband and wife, __________ likely to divorce

Answer 7

The greater, the less

Question 8

Which factors nurture liking & loving?

Answer 8

Similarity, proximity, & attractiveness

Question 9

When we know others live us, we usually feel

Answer 9

A reciprocal attraction

Question 10

We tend to seek out someone who is similar in physical attractiveness to ourselves when searching for a mate. This is called

Answer 10

Matching phenomenon

Question 11

Friendship is described as a schema for the mutual exchange of personal benefits & favors so that

Answer 11

Self esteem can profit.

Question 12

Compared to liking, love is _______to measure

Answer 12

More difficult

Question 13

The greater similarity in couples,

Answer 13

The less likely they are to divorce and the happier they are

Question 14

Psychologist Robert sternberg views love as a triangle consisting of what 3 components?

Answer 14

Passion, intimacy and commitment

Question 15

Unlike the wild emotions of passionate love, companionate love is lower-key. It is a

Answer 15

Deep, affectionate attachment

Question 16

Knowing someone likes you can awaken

Answer 16

Romantic feelings in you.

Question 17

During infancy, keeping infants close to their caregivers can cause strong social attachment to serve as a

Answer 17

Powerful survival impulse

Question 18

The ______ theory of attraction States that we like those whom we associate with rewards

Answer 18

Reward

Question 19

A woman told another person her secret desires and perspectives. This woman is engaging in:

Answer 19

Self - disclosure

Question 20

Sternberg’s kinds of love are combinations of intimacy, commitment, and passion. Which of the following are kinds of love found on the change of love?

Answer 20

Companionate & romantic

Question 21

Affection we feel for those with whom our lives are deeply intertwined is:

Answer 21

Companionate love

Question 22

_______ is an emotional bond between infant & caregiver

Answer 22

Attachment

Question 23

___________ is a situation in which the costs & benefits gained from a relationship are equal to the amount one has contributed to that relationship.

Answer 23

Equity

Question 24

psychological ingredients of marital happiness

Answer 24

Kindred minds, social & sexual intimacy, and equitable giving & receiving

Question 25

Relationships where trust displaces anxiety and where we are free to open ourselves without fear of rejection are characterized by which

Answer 25

Self-disclosure

Question 26

Which of the following are factors related to long-lasting marriages?

Answer 26

People stay married if they are religiously committed, live in a small town or a farm, or married after 20