Chapter 11: Attraction And Intimacy Flashcards
The desire to Connect with others in enduring dose relationships is:
The need to belong.
The term for excluding someone is:
Ostracize
Which of these factors nurture liking & loving?
Similarity & proximity
When choosing Whom to approach for a date, people often approach someone who
Roughly matches their attractiveness
A teen has a deep desire to connect with others in close relationships. Inns teen is exhibiting:
The need to belong
Richard is being excluded from the group. He is being:
Ostracized
_______ the similarities between husband and wife, __________ likely to divorce
The greater, the less
Which factors nurture liking & loving?
Similarity, proximity, & attractiveness
When we know others live us, we usually feel
A reciprocal attraction
We tend to seek out someone who is similar in physical attractiveness to ourselves when searching for a mate. This is called
Matching phenomenon
Friendship is described as a schema for the mutual exchange of personal benefits & favors so that
Self esteem can profit.
Compared to liking, love is _______to measure
More difficult
The greater similarity in couples,
The less likely they are to divorce and the happier they are
Psychologist Robert sternberg views love as a triangle consisting of what 3 components?
Passion, intimacy and commitment
Unlike the wild emotions of passionate love, companionate love is lower-key. It is a
Deep, affectionate attachment
Knowing someone likes you can awaken
Romantic feelings in you.
During infancy, keeping infants close to their caregivers can cause strong social attachment to serve as a
Powerful survival impulse
The ______ theory of attraction States that we like those whom we associate with rewards
Reward
A woman told another person her secret desires and perspectives. This woman is engaging in:
Self - disclosure
Sternberg’s kinds of love are combinations of intimacy, commitment, and passion. Which of the following are kinds of love found on the change of love?
Companionate & romantic
Affection we feel for those with whom our lives are deeply intertwined is:
Companionate love
_______ is an emotional bond between infant & caregiver
Attachment
___________ is a situation in which the costs & benefits gained from a relationship are equal to the amount one has contributed to that relationship.
Equity
psychological ingredients of marital happiness
Kindred minds, social & sexual intimacy, and equitable giving & receiving
Relationships where trust displaces anxiety and where we are free to open ourselves without fear of rejection are characterized by which
Self-disclosure
Which of the following are factors related to long-lasting marriages?
People stay married if they are religiously committed, live in a small town or a farm, or married after 20
