chapter 10 Flashcards
self-concept
set of attributes, abilities, attitudes, and values that define them (appearance, possessions, everyday behaviors)
self-esteem
judgments we make about our own worth and feelings associated with those judgments (learning things in school, making friends, getting along with parents, treating others kindly)
empathy vs. sympathy
feelings with another vs. feelings for another
In early childhood what are the three things that define children’s self-concept?
-Appearance
-Possessions
-Everyday behaviors
What do preschoolers gain in emotional competence? (combo of 3 things)
-Emotional understanding
-Emotional self-regulation
-Self-conscious emotions and empathy
When discussing parenting in parenting books (whole brain child) what is the high-road referring to?
maintain the ability to think rationally and choose actions according to values
For children with poor emotion regulation what does empathy lead to?
personal distress
nonsocial activity
unoccupied, onlooker behavior or solitary
parallel play
playing near other children with similar toys, without trying to influence them
associative play
engaging in separate activities, but exchanging toys and comments
cooperative play
working toward a common goal (as in make-believe play)
What are the 3 cognitive play categories?
functional play, constructive play, make-believe play
According to the slides what is the power of inductive discipline?
-gives children info on how they can behave in the future
-encourages empathy and sympathy
-gives children reasons for changing their behavior
-create script to defer future transgressions
Know the 7 points of positive parenting
-Use transgressions as opportunities to teach
-Reduce opportunities for misbehavior
-Provide reasons for rules
-Arrange for children to participate in family routines and duties
-When children are obstinate, try compromising and problem solving
-Encourage mature behavior
-Be sensitive to children’s physical and emotional resources
Know the four sources of aggression for kids in early childhood and the treatment for aggressive children
-individual differences
-family
-social information-processing deficits
-media influences
-treatment: breaking cycle of hostility, promote effective ways of relating to others