Chapter 10 Flashcards
Communication
Transactional process, showing meanings
Families use this for:
identify needs
Alternatives
Completion in the decision making process
Components of interpersonal communication
Message - info
Channel - mode
Encoding - producing the message
Decoding - understanding
Sender - sends communication
Receiver - receives communication
Negative impacts on communication
Filters: the message receives is not in its true form
Distorts: the message has a hidden meaning
High context: that a persons words have more meaning then their body language
Low context: a persons body language has more meaning than there words
Family rules
Share understanding
Patterned or characteristic responses
Generally unwritten
Formed overtime
Difficult to change
Family communication patterns
Consensual - high conversation; high conformity (maintain family hierarchy while also allowing expression)
Pluralistic - high conversation; low conformity (very supportive and active conversationists and donât apply pressure to conform)
Laoisrez faire - low conversation; low conformity (donât communicate often and when they do they arenât active)
Protective - low conversation; high conformity (very big on obedience and doesnât allow for opinions)
Rapport communication
Intimate/connection
Johari window
Open self - known to others; known to self
Blind self - not known to others; known to others
Unknown self - not known to self; known to others
Hidden self - not knowing to others; known to self
Verbalized power
Withdrawal
Guilt induction
Positive concern
Negotiation
Deception
Black-mail
Physical/verbal abuse
Managing conflict through communication
Aggressive- taking someoneâs power
Manipulative - use ways to make someone feel sad or guilty to win the argument
Passive - submissive
Assertive - become your advocate, voice your feelings without taking power
Passive aggressive - indirectly expressing negative feelings
Communication theory
4 horsemen of the apocalypse - criticism (attacking ones character), content (communicating disgust for the other), defensiveness (make people feel like they are the reason), and stone-walling (turn away from the conflict of the relationship)
Conflict
Conflict resolution- process of census
Conflict is inevitable in any family
Other terms
Digital divide - gap in access to technology (according to SES and race)
Effects of internet
Social media has gained importance