Ch9 Achieving Emotional Balance in a Chaotic World Flashcards

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Positive, negative or mixed feelings; temporary experiences

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Emotions

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___energize our behavior and direct our attention towards some things and away from others.

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Emotions

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We can gain control over our ___.

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Emotions

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Achieving Emotional Balance:Choices can be dictated by our cognitions (reason), emotions (feelings) or both

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A Daily Challenge

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Achieving Emotional Balance:Emotional imbalance can be due to

 - Learned inhibition of certain emotions and  overemphasis on the expression of others.
 - Fixation on a single emotion.
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A Daily Challenge

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___can be increased through a combination of awareness and training.

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Emotional Intelligence

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Emotional Intelligence: Refers to the competencies that determine how we achieve and maintain emotional balance; self-awareness is key.

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Personal Competence

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Emotional Intelligence: Refers to the competencies that determine how we handle relationships; identifying others’ thoughts and feelings is key.

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Social Competence

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Emotions play critical role in success of every organization.

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Emotional Factor at Work

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Doing business is not purely rational or logical.

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Emotional Factor at Work

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Compassion is an important key to long-term personal success.

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Emotional Factor at Work

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A relationship strategy emphasizes doing business with a meeting of minds & hearts.

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Emotional Factor at Work

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Emotional Factor at Work: Form of emotional regulation where workers are expected to display specific emotions as part of their job

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Emotional labor

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Emotional Factor at Work: ___ ___taxes the mind and can be more difficult to handle than physical labor, which taxes the body.

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Emotional labor

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Emotional Factor at Work: Some organizations and their leaders generate emotional pain, which is a form of

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Toxicity

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Emotional Factor at Work: ___can demoralize employees, damage performance, and contaminate the health of the organization.

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Toxicity

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Factors That Influence Our Emotional Development: Refers to a person’s individual style of expressing needs and emotions
- Activity, intensity, adaptability, general disposition

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Temperament

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Factors That Influence Our Emotional Development: Primarily biologically based

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Temperament

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Factors That Influence Our Emotional Development: ___is affected by the environment during development.

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Temperament

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Factors That Influence Our Emotional Development: Unconscious childhood memories can bring out emotions, causing us to experience emotions out of proportion to a current situation

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Unconscious Influences: Transactional Analysis

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Factors That Influence Our Emotional Development: The brain records both

 - Events
 - Feelings associated with events
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Transactional Analysis theory

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Factors That Influence Our Emotional Development: One’s ability to interpret human actions, gestures and speech patterns in unfamiliar cultural situations and respond appropriately

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Cultural Intelligence

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Anger is often a response to perceived injustice: Learning to address their own anger and that of others is one of the most sophisticated and mature skills people are ever required to learn

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Coping With Your Anger and Others’

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Anger is often a response to perceived injustice: Intense anger often takes the form of rage such as road rage

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Coping With Your Anger and Others’

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Anger is often a response to perceived injustice: Workplace rage can take the form of yelling, verbal abuse, and physical violence
- More likely when workers are stressed by long hours, unrealistic deadlines, lack of recognition, bullying incidents, etc

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Coping With Your Anger and Others’

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Monitor your anger with a journal

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Coping With Your Anger and Others’

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Reframe the situation:

- Try not to see every inconvenience or frustration as a personal affront.

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Coping With Your Anger and Others’

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Be aware of how you talk to yourself:

- Don’t make yourself feel like a victim

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Coping With Your Anger and Others’

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Give yourself a time-out before acting on a blow up

- Wait before you speak or send email.

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Coping With Your Anger and Others’

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Pay attention to the important thing sin life

- Most frustrations, inconveniences, and indignities are trivial and temporary.

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Coping With Your Anger and Others’

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Avoid reacting in a manner that may seem emotionally unstable or irrational.

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Effective Ways to Express Your Anger

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Do not blame or make accusations.

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Effective Ways to Express Your Anger

33
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Express your feelings in a timely manner.

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Effective Ways to Express Your Anger

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Be specific as you describe the factors that triggered your anger, and be clear about the resolution you are seeking.

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Effective Ways to Express Your Anger

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  • Recognize and accept the other person’s anger
  • Encourage the angry person to vent feelings
  • Do not respond to an angry person with your anger
  • Give the angry person feedback
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How to Handle Others’ Anger

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Workplace violence encompasses a wide range of behaviors and is defined as:

 - Any act against an employee that creates a hostile work environment and negatively affects the employee, either physically or psychologically.
- These acts include all types of physical or verbal assaults, threats, coercion, intimidation, and all forms of harassment.
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Violence in the Workplace

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Violence in the Workplace:
- Employee misconduct combined with revenge
- It may involve:
+ Deliberate nonperformance + Arson
+ Financial fraud + Computer Crimes
+ Destruction of equipment + Slander

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Employee Sabotage

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Use hiring procedures that screen out unstable persons

- In depth interviews, drug testing, background checks can help.

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Preventing Workplace Violence

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Develop a strategy for dealing with incidents before they actually occur
- Establish a strong expectation of not tolerating hostile or intimidating speech or actions.

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Preventing Workplace Violence

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If someone must be fired or laid off, do so in a way that does not demoralize the employee
- Communicate what and when clearly.

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Preventing Workplace Violence

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Provide out-placement services for laid-off or terminated employees
- Job search skills, retraining, counseling.

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Preventing Workplace Violence

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Establish a systematic way to deal with disgruntled employees.

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Preventing Workplace Violence

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Provide supervisors and managers with training that will help them prevent workplace violence and deal effectively with it.

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Preventing Workplace Violence

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Started taking shape before birth and evolved over the years

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Emotional Styles

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  • Some develop intellectual strategies to avoid dealing directly with emotional reactions.
  • Habitually suppressing, denying, pretending emotions don’t exist is unhealthy, unproductive.
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Suppressing Your Emotions

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Emotional Styles: People see themselves as helpless victims of feelings that they cannot control.

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Capitulating to Your Emotions

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Emotional Styles: Frequently displays lack of emotional control
- Vulgar language, teary eyes, raised voice

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Overexpressing Your Emotions

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Emotional Styles: People recognize, accept, & experience emotion

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Accommodating Your Emotions

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We have a certain amount of mental, emotional and physical energy each day.

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Strategies for Achieving Emotional Control

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We can learn to discipline the mind to banish thoughts that waste energy by:

 - Journaling and identifying your emotional patterns
 - Set aside quiet time to reflect on your emotional patterns
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Strategies for Achieving Emotional Control

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Strategies for Achieving Emotional Control:
- Take responsibility for your emotions
+ Do not shift the blame to other people or events
- Put your problems into perspective
+ Look at problems realistically and practically
- Take steps to move beyond toxic emotions
+ When negative emotions dominate your life, individual talk therapy can help.
- Give your feelings some exercise
+ Identify your feelings and express them appropriately

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Fine-Tune Your Emotional Style

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Cengage Learning: A strong feeling of displeasure, usually of antagonism.

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Anger

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Cengage Learning: The ability to interpret human actions, gestures, and speech patterns in a foreign culture.

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Cultural Intelligence

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Cengage Learning: A strong, temporary feeling (such as anger or fear) that is positive or negative.

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Emotion

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Cengage Learning: The ability to recognize our own feelings and those of others; to manage emotions well in ourselves and in our relationships.

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Emotional Intelligence

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Cengage Learning: A person’s individual style of expressing needs and emotions; it is biological and genetically based.

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Temperament

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Cengage Learning: The part of the mind of which we are unaware. A vast storehouse of forgotten memories, desires, ideas, and frustrations.

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Unconscious Mind

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Cengage Learning: Encompasses a wide range of behaviors, including hostile remarks, intimidation of another employee by stalking, physical assaults, and threatening phone calls.

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Workplace Violence

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Cengage Learning: 1. Strong, temporary feelings that are positive or negative are called:

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Emotions

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Cengage Learning: 2. According to author Daniel Goleman, approximately what percent of a person’s life success is attributable to her intelligence quotient, or IQ?

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20%

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Cengage Learning: 3. At work, Taddeus keeps a tight rein on disruptive impulses and is scrupulously honest. Taddeus demonstrates:

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high personal competence.

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Cengage Learning: 4. Which of the following is not a factor that influences our emotions?

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Skill

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Cengage Learning: 5. Emily reacted with exaggerated fear to a supervisor’s criticism of her work. This is an example of Emily’s:

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unconscious influences.

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Cengage Learning: 6. According to the book Anger Kills, what proportion of the general population has harmful levels of hostility?

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20%

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Cengage Learning: 7. All of the following are ways to handle other people’s anger except:

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a. accept the other’s anger.
b. encourage venting.
c. avoid responding with your own anger.

d. ALL OF THESE ARE WAYS TO HANDLE OTHER PEOPLE’S ANGER.

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Cengage Learning: 8. Near the end of an exhausting shift at the Exchanges and Returns desk on December 26, Donetta responded to a screaming customer by screaming the answers to his questions right back at him. Donetta broke which basic tenet of dealing with angry people?

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Avoid responding to anger with anger.

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Cengage Learning: 9. The first line of defense to prevent workplace violence is:

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use hiring procedures that screen out unstable people.

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Cengage Learning: 10. Which of the following is not a way of preventing workplace violence?

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Only hire women.

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Cengage Learning: 11. ________ is the ability to monitor and control one’s emotions and behavior at work and in social settings.

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Emotional intelligence

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Cengage Learning: 12. In the U.S., intense media focus on violence and crime causes many people to experience:

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emotional imbalance because of exaggerated fearful reactions.

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Cengage Learning: 13. Which of the following is not a recommended way of expressing anger?

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Speak as loud as you can to alleviate stress.

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Cengage Learning: 14. A recent study by the Pinkerton security agency revealed that the top concern of workplace security officials is:

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workplace violence.

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Cengage Learning: 15. Which of the following is NOT a common cause of employee sabotage?

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Providing workplace violence prevention programs.