Book: Engage with Honor Flashcards
Ch.1 Critical Failures in Honor.
What examples of Dis-honorable behavior are outlined in Ch.1?
Runs deep in our DNA pg. 15
Failures in Industry Failures in Government Failures in Financial Services Failures in Education Failures in Honor
Ch.1 Critical Failures in Honor.
Pg. 13
Viktor E. Frankl quote:
“In the concentration camps, for example, in this living laboratory and on this testing ground, we watched and witnessed some of our comrades behave like swine while others behaved like saints. Man has both potentialities within himself; which one is actualized depends on….” what?
Decisions but not on conditions
Ch.1 Critical Failures in Honor. Dis-honorable beavior. Runs deep in our DNA. Pg. 16: "When honor fails, we all lose; when honor fails and there is a lack of accountability....? What
The loss undermines the culture and structure of the organization.
Ch. 1 Critical failures in Honor.
pg. 21
“Without clear standards and intentional accountability…” What?
“Without a consistent commitment to character, our sense of duty, responsibility, accountability.? What?
“We can lose our true north and thus, our honor.”
“and honor fades away.”
In Ch.2 Battling for Honor and Accountability,
what quote was in the 2nd paragraph?
pg. 27, A Culture of Honor
“As a follower, hard choices were much easier when you saw your leaders setting the example.”
Ch. 2 Battling for Honor and Accountability
pg. 25,26
“ Their Wisdom in showing both strength and compassion…” did what?
“set an example for the rest of us, one that continues to inform my understanding of honor and accountability.”
Ch. 2 Battling for Honor and Accountability.
pg. 28
“As a follower, hard choices were much easier….” when what?
“when you saw your leaders setting the example.”
Ch. 2 Battling for Honor and Accountability
pg. 28
What follows when “winning at the expense of truth” takes over?
“the ends justify the means” mentality
Ch. 2 Battling for Honor and Accountability
pg. 30
It takes More than Good Intentions
“We have to overcome….” What?
“Our natural inclination for the path of least resistance.”
Ch. 2 Battling for Honor and Accountability
pg. 31-32
How do we stay on course? How do we protect our honor?
Carrot and a stick model.
Carrot: deepest desires, strongest sources of energy–source of purest motives.
Stick: Courageous accountability. The awareness that someone is going to hold us accountable.
Ch. 2 Battling for Honor and Accountability
pg. 32
Accountability is essential for what? (3 things)
Successful living.
Leading with honor.
Excellence in performance and execution.
Ch. 2 Battling for Honor and Accountability
pg. 33
Correcting back must be a way of life
What is the challenge for leaders?
We have to set the example for others while simultaneously fighting to stay on course ourselves.
Ch. 2 Battling for Honor and Accountability
pg. 36
Honor Code
- Tell the truth, even when it is difficult.
- Treat others with respect and dignity.
- Keep your word and your commitments.
- Be ethical
- Act responsibly; do your duty, and be accountable.
- Be courageous.
- Live your values.
Ch. 2 Battling for Honor and Accountability
pg. 36
What is the practical day-to-day companion of honor?
Accountability
Ch. 2 Battling for Honor and Accountability
pg. 37
Honor can be ________, but it is more likely ________.
Taught.
Caught.
Ch. 3 Building a Culture of Accountability
pg. 44
Love Hate Attitude
Paradoxes of a leader
Leaders need to be: bold and cautions strong and humble objective and empathetic tough and compassionate
Ch. 3 Building a Culture of Accountability
pg. 45-47
Reasons for why we resist accountability (7)
Pride Fear Laziness Lack of experience, knowledge Lack of planning Busyness Negativity
Ch. 3 Building a Culture of Accountability
pg. 45-47
Reasons for why we resist accountability
Which reason is represented in: "hubris" inflated ego above others rules dont apply to you
Pride
Ch. 3 Building a Culture of Accountability
pg. 45-47
Reasons for why we resist accountability
Which reason is represented in:
I may not be able to come through
Some foundation of truth, but usually blown out of proportion
A blinding force for one that has knowingly violated ethics or the law
Fear
Ch. 3 Building a Culture of Accountability
pg. 45-47
Reasons for why we resist accountability
Which reason is represented in:
A more subtle challenge that is inherent in all of us
Scientist say its built in our brains to take the easy way out
Can be habits and mindsets
Laziness
Ch. 3 Building a Culture of Accountability
pg. 45-47
Reasons for why we resist accountability
Which reason is represented in:
Just dont know how to step out and follow through
Perhaps no good role models
Lack of experience, knowledge, planning
Ch. 3 Building a Culture of Accountability
pg. 45-47
Reasons for why we resist accountability
Which reason is represented in:
Not living by priorities
Easy to procrastinate due to full schedule
Changing the rider (your logic) and elephant (your emotions) may be too hard.
Consider changing environment
Busyness
Ch. 3 Building a Culture of Accountability
pg. 45-47
Reasons for why we resist accountability
Which reason is represented in:
Emotions are highly contagious
This zaps energy and undermines teamwork
Negativity
Ch. 3 Building a Culture of Accountability
pg 48
According to Mike Myatt, Chariman of N2Growth
what is “…the lowest cost, most practical, and most productive form of risk management and quality assurance that can me implemented across an enterprise.”
Accountability
Ch. 3 Building a Culture of Accountability
pg 48-50
Advantages in building a culture of accountability:
Keeps the focus on results
Prepares people to be responsible and successful
Ch. 3 Building a Culture of Accountability
pg. 49,50
Accomplishing goals and developing people means….
What?
Win for individual
Win for leader
Win for team
Win for organization