Better Than Before

Question 1

The Four Tendencies In a nutshell

Answer 1

• Upholders respond readily to outer and inner expectations (I’m an Upholder, 100%)
• Questioners question all expectations; they’ll meet an expectation if they think it makes sense (myhusband is a Questioner)
• Rebels resist all expectations, outer and inner alike
• Obligers meet outer expectations, but struggle to meet expectations they impose on themselvesTendencies and Becoming Better Than Before

Question 2

I’m an Obliger… how to use to set goal

Answer 2

1 Create outer accountability, inner accountability doesn’t work for me. Forget about writing down reasons justifications etc. All obligers need outer accountability to meet inner expectations.

Question 3

What do I feel accountable to? Reminders don’t always don’t work. If I make a commitment to someone. It brings it home

Answer 3

People very close to me create an Inner expectation, thus it doesn’t create a big eough outer expection to bring home the goal.