Behaving Transactionally Flashcards
Behaving Transactionally may include articulating what?
Aims in our Conditions of Life
Behaving Transactionally may include deliberately practicing what?
transactional exchanges
Behaving Transactionally may include making what, and gaining what, before doing what?
Making invitations and gaining agreement before forcing offers, opinions or assertions onto others
Behaving Transactionally may include accepting what powerfully when not moving forward is appropriate?
Declines
Behaving Transactionally may include making offers to support what?
Acceptance
Behaving Transactionally may include not skipping what?
Moves and phases in the transaction cycle
Behaving Transactionally may include offering your own what to ensure what?
Your own know-how to ensure mutual and reciprocal satisfaction
Behaving Transactionally may include making commitments that carry what?
Consequences and considerations
Behaving Transactionally may include listening more than we what?
Talk
Behaving Transactionally may include holding what kind of ethics?
Firm ethics
Behaving Transactionally may include rejecting what kind of behaviour from others?
Unethical behaviour
Behaving Transactionally may include saying something when talking that is what?
Relevant and meaningful
Behaving Transactionally may include moving with an ambitious and deliberate commitment to accept and confront what?
The world around us
Behaving Transactionally may include committing to applying transactional competence even and especially when what?
When those around us cannot or will not
Behaving Transactionally may include recognising our own personality for its what?
Assets and liabilities
Behaving Transactionally may include utilising knowledge of what to engage others effectively?
Personality
Behaving Transactionally may include ensuring what is never a hindrance?
Personality
Behaving Transactionally may include not complaining and not justifying a lack of what two things in confronting personality?
Ambition and fitness
Kirkland’s goal in dealing with others around ‘personality’ and ‘behaving transactionally’ is to make transactions what?
As simple and seamless as possible
The only way that Kirkland knows how to make transactions as simple and seamless as possible is to deliberately apply what?
The principles of Transactional Competence and to do so by behaving transactionally.
To behave transactionally, we must not use our personality as an excuse for what?
Not applying transactional competence.
Ignoring someone’s personality can hinder us from what?
Achieving our goals
Behaving transactionally requires us to acknowledge the predictability of what?
Transactional personalities
It is crucial to know and embody our aims in our Conditions of Life because why?
Our happiness and success depend on it.
If we want to achieve our significant aims in life, we cannot justify our behaviour with our personality to avoid what?
Accountability
What is the Lesson Leader Notes Focus?
A description of the primary focus of that lesson
What are the Lesson Leader Notes Learner Outcomes?
A focused outcome for that lesson; what you want Learners to learn, understand, and practice
What is the Lesson Leader Notes Mood?
A recommendation for the moods to produce for that lesson, These are the moods you project and the moods you produce in the environment.
What are the Lesson Leader Notes Notes about facilitating this Lesson?
Recommendations for facilitating this Lesson. Sometimes this will include a link/s to Thrive eCoaching videos to help you study the content.
What are the Lesson Leader Notes Primary Struggles Expressed by Learners?
A description of some of the struggles Learners may have with this lesson
What is the Lesson Leader Notes Next Lesson?
A brief look ahead toward what is coming
What is the Lesson Leader Note Course Management?
Recommendations for managing learners during this lesson. This is the administrative or management aspect of the course. Pay close attention to these as they’ll help you manage the full implementation of the course.
What is the Focus of the Orientation Leader Notes?
Establish the required environment for the entire training.
What are the Learner Outcomes of the Orientation Leader Notes?
Learners are introduced to the LMS, Transactional Competence, Certification, and each other.
What is the Mood of the Orientation Leader Notes?
Start in high moods and remain social, gregarious, and friendly.
From the Notes about facilitating of the Orientation Leader Notes: Get ___ right or struggle with ___.
The environment; everything to follow.
From the Notes about facilitating of the Orientation Leader Notes: What four things MUST you produce relevant and powerful relationships to?
The LMS; Transactional Competence; You and the Learners; Certification
From the Notes about facilitating of the Orientation Leader Notes: What are the three features of the LMS?
Tracking; Certification; Supplemental Learning
From the Notes about facilitating of the Orientation Leader Notes: What do you need to build?
Your own authority
From the Notes about facilitating of the Orientation Leader Notes: What do you need to let the learners get familiar with?
One another
From the Notes about facilitating of the Orientation Leader Notes: What is there to produce a relationship with about Ceritification?
That: this course ends in certification; they’ll need 75% to certify and complete the course.