Adulthood: Normal Behavior & Marriage Flashcards
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A covenant, by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of the whole, is by its nature ordered toward the good of spouses and the procreation and education of offspring. _________ & _______.
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Marriage. Unity & Indissolubility of marriage.
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What binds two people in the state of ______ is the marital rights and duties exchanged by the ________.
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Matrimony. Marriage contract.
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A new structural unit. Mr & Mrs., invited as one, regarded as one by relatives & friends. Think & act as one; _______.
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Husband-wife. Conjugal properties.
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Creates a new series of statuses and network of relationships: individuals & families.
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Marriage
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Marital role: societal expectations or status.
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Structural-functional framework
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Marital role: where one adjust his/her behavior and reactions to what he/she thinks the other person will do.
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Interactional framework
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Marital role: the expected role and the role behavior are integrated and compatible.
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Dependent
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Marital role: couples relate and adjust to one another on the basis of roles.
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Reciprocal and complimentary.
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The husband’s role is better understood in terms of the _____ and vice versa.
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Wife’s role
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Each _______ evaluates him/herself and the other on the basis of how well each role is performed.
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Spouse
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Change continually throughout the life cycle of the family
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Role relations
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Roles change over ____. Need ____ & ______.
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Time. Adjustments & Agreements.
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Traditional Husband and Wife Roles
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Biological view, Instrumental-expressive roles, Traditional role differentiation & Socio-cultural view “BITS”
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Domestic mgt, housekeeper, cook, laundress, seamstress. Responsible for the family’s internal needs. Traditional role of whom?
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Wives
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Livelihood preoccupation. Expected to be responsible for supporting the family. Responsible for the family’s relationship with the outside world.
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Husbands
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Instrumental expressive role: manipulation of external environment to attain specific goals.
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Instrumental character trait
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Associated with feminity
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Expressive character trait
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Instrumental expressive role: Warmth, sensitivity to the needs of others.
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Expressive character trait
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Instrumental expressive role: Associated with masculinity
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Instrumental character trait
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Instrumental expressive role: competitiveness, self confidence, logic & non-emotionality.
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Instrumental character trait
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Instrumental expressive role: Emotional support and tension mgt.
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Expressive character traits
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The more enduring relationship is one which rejects polarized ____ and integrates the masculine & feminine by combining both ______ & ______ qualities. Ex: combining care and practical assistance with ______ & _______. By whom?
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Gender roles. Expressive & instrumental. Affection & emotional closeness. Cancian.
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Is rooted in the biophysical differences between male & female.
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Biological view
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Believes in the malleability of the individual and the influence that the external environmental factors have in molding and directing behavior: socialization experiences, peer group standards, situational factors and cultural norms.
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Socio cultural view
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Assume the role of being economically independent as co-breadwinner. Pursue a career and attain a high status for herself and her family. Commitment to active political, civic and community service.
Changing roles of the Wife
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Is co-manager and family treasurer.
Wife
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Who formulated traditional role differentiation
Parson & Bales
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Who formulated Instrumental-expressive roles
Bales & Slater
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NCRFW
National Commitment for the Role Filipino Women
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According to NCFRW, state recognizes the role of women in nation-building, and shall ensure fundamental ______ before the law.
Equality
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According to NCFRW, ______ of women(providing safe & healthful working conditions), provide ______(establishment of day centers), provide ______ & realize their _______(practical art subjects).
Protection, facilities, opportunities & potentials.
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Economic provider, general handyman around the house, symbolic household head, representative of the family in the community.
Husband's role
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Husband's chief role is to
Support his family
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To provide economic security to his wife and children.
Man's moral obligation
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Husband's role issues
Upsurge of women labor/work, Reversal of roles or "house-band" & OFWs
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Refers to the ability to affect the behavior of others
Power
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Two dimensions of Power
Authority & Influence
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Power which emanates from an individual's own abilities, skills, charisma, or some other personal characteristics.
Influence
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Power which is legitimated or cultuy prescribed
Authority
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Indicators of conjugal power
Who wins in disagreement, which spouse needs permission, task allocation/division of labor & decision making "WWTD"
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Bases of conjugal power
Personality & BG, Power structure in the family, Family & Kinship structure, Amount of resources each individual spouse brings into the marriage & Situational factors "PPFAS"
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Adaptation of each spouse to each other and to various tasks and situations of living together.
Adjustment in marriage
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A continuing process for the couple which means working out a ______ relationship.
Adjustment in marriage. Dynamic.
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Adjustment in marriage requires _______ and ________ in status, role & lifestyles.
Flexibility & Adaptability
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Refers to the achievement of one or more goals including permanence, companionship, fulfilling expectations.
Marital status
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In marital success for the couple, it is achieved when they perceive that their marriage is _______, that their experiences are _______, and that they have adequately ______ to each other in the various aspects of their married life.
Happy. Satisfying. Adjusted.
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____________: 9 tasks for a Happy Marriage
Pillars for success
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Task for a Happy marriage: First, to separate _______ from the family of one's childhood so as to invest fully in the marriage and, at the same time, to redefine the _________ with both families of origin.
Emotionally. Lines of connection.
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Task for a Happy marriage: second, building togetherness based on _______, shared ________ and on expanded _______ that includes both partners, while at the same setting boundaries to protect each other's ______.
Mutual identification. Intimacy. Conscience. Autonomy.
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Task for a Happy marriage: third, to establish a rich & pleasurable ______, _______ relationship and to ______ if the incursions of the workplace and obligations.
Intimate. Faithful. Protect.
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Task for a Happy marriage: fourth, for couples with children, to embrace the _____ and daunting roles of ______.
Openness to life & Parenthood.
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Task for a Happy marriage: fifth & sixth, _______ & ________ the inevitable crises of life, and maintaining the strength of the ______ in the face of adversity.
Confronting & Mastering. Marital bond.
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Task for a Happy marriage: fifth & six, the marriage should be a safe haven in which partners are able to express their _______, _______ & ________.
Differences, Anger & Conflict. "DAC"
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Task for a Happy marriage: seventh, using _____ & ______ to keep things in perspective and to avoid boredom and isolation.
Humor & Laughter.
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Task for a Happy marriage: eight, _____ & _____ each other's needs for dependency and offering continuing _______ & ______.
Nurturing & Comforting. Encouragement & Support.
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Task for a Happy marriage: ninth, to keep alive the early _____, idealized images of falling in love, while facing the ______ of the changes brought by time.
Romantic. Realities.
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Marital success is the result of marital _____, _____ & _____.
Happiness, Satisfaction & Adjustment. "HAS"
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Factors related to Marital success
Family BG, Location of residence, Age of marriage, Religiosity, Content & process of communication & Socioeconomic status(wife's employment) "FLARCS"
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Strengths to look for and to build upon: _____ & ability to compromise. Ability to ______. Shared decision making: _____ & _____. Pulling together in times of trouble.
Flexibility. Communicate. Acknowledge & Respect.
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Strengths to look for and to build upon: sense of ______. ______ enough to fight. Realistic ______ & ______.
Humor. Caring. Expectations & Acceptance.
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Strengths to look for and to build upon: the ability to develop _____, pursue diff interests, then come together and share their experiences.
Oneself
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Source of adjustment difficulties. Cultural, communication barriers, intelligence/educational attainment, differences in social class BG & religious differences.
Intermarriages
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Factors contributing to marital satisfaction in intermarriages: ______ of spouses, ________ to marriage.
Flexibility. Mutual commitment.
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Factors contributing to marital satisfaction in intermarriages: compatibility of __________ ability to communicate both feelings and emotions to each other.
Educational level
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Factors contributing to marital satisfaction in intermarriages: values of obedience, respect for elders, desire for harmonious relationships, responsibility, friendliness paved the way for mutual understanding.
Filipino wife
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The ______ & ______ is usually thought of as a place of refuge and security where members enjoy the most satisfying and intimate relationships.
Family & Home.
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Not only a violation of their right to protection, but also their right to survival, participation & development.
Violence against women
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Risk factors: strained relationship, extreme poverty, hx of abuse, drugs & alcohol. Different forms: physical, economic, emotional & sexual. Epidemiology: wife battering __%, rape __% & others __%
Family violence. 60%. 18%. 18%.
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Women are reluctant to admit that abuse took place because of feelings of ______, ______ and ______ to the abuser.
Self blame, Shame & Loyalty.
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Women in many cultures are socialized to accept physical and emotional ______ as part of their husband's prerogative.
Chastisement
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Women are afraid of _____ & loss of ______ from husband.
Reprisal & economic support
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Is natural and inevitable in all human interaction including marital relations.
Conflict
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Common cause of conflict among Filipino couples
Financial reasons, Lack of communication, Infidelity, Relationship with in-laws & Vices "FLIRV"
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It is through conflict and its _____ that misunderstandings are clarified and problems are better understood.
Resolution.
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If the conflict is handled ________, the relationship is actually strengthened.
Constructively
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Contributes to the better understanding and greater intimacy of spouses
Conflict
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What is important therefore, is not the whether conflict exists, but the methods of ______ and ______ the conflict.
Managing & Resolving.
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When the conflict and disagreements go unresolved, they accumulate through the years and the couple start drifting apart from each other. Situation: intolerable repressed feeling and pent-up emotions.
Husband-wife separation
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Most common agreement. Separation by informal agreement without benefit of judicial process.
Hiwalay system
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There never was a valid and binding contract. There was an official finding that there were never was a marriage, that the couple were never truly man and wife, because some essential requisite for validity were wanting at the time the marriage was solemnized.
Declaration of nullity
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Basis for declaration of nullity: lack of true discretion. Insufficient ______ at the time of the wedding because one not of the parties "lacks the maturity of _______ necessary and sufficient to understand, choose, undertake, and fulfill the responsibilities of marriage." Psychological ________: SZA, homo, psychopathy, sociopathy & anxiety neurosis.
Consent. Judgment. Incapacity.
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When the married couple are allowed by judicial sentence to break this complementary unity of life. Permits spouse to live separately but the marital bonds are not severed, so neither spouse may remarry. Imperfect or relative divorce.
Legal separation
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Grounds for legal separation
Violence, corruption, moral pressure, imprisonment, drug/alcohol addiction, homo, bigamy, sexual infidelity, attempt on one's life & abandonment w/out justifiable cause
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It is the voiding of a defective contract that is valid and binding from the beginning up to the moment of its annulment. Thus parties are free to remarry new partners.
Civil annulment
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When a marriage is annulled, there was a ______ marriage and the couple was truly man and wife up to the time when the sentence of the annulment takes effect.
Valid
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Marriage is annulled if any of these existed at the time of the marriage: below _____ w/out the ______ of the parents/guardians.
18y/o. Consent.
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Marriage is annulled if any of these existed at the time of the marriage: ______ mind. Consent obtained by _____, _____ or _____ influence.
Unsound. Force, Intimidation & Undue.
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Marriage is annulled if any of these existed at the time of the marriage: _____ in obtaining consent. non disclosure of previous conviction, concealment of wife about pregnancy, STD and drug addiction/alcoholism.
Fraud
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Marriage is annulled if any of these existed at the time of the marriage: ______ incapable of consummating the marriage. Affliction to ___ found to be serious & incurable.
Physically. STD.
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When the man and wife agree not merely to live in diff. houses, but take the further step of revoking rights they mutually gave each other, then the marriage bond itself is broken, the marriage dissolved.
Divorce
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Which absolute divorce effects, that leaves the divorced parties free to marry again.
Dissolution of marriage bond
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How do separated women cope with the situation
Keeping occupied & Seek support
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Brings a diminished ability to be a parent in nearly every way: discipline, praying, physical care and emotional support.
Divorce
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Surviving the breakup, how children cope with divorce.
Varying reactions: better alternative, depressed, confused, angry, lose their grandparents, psychological trauma d/t disintegration of the family, suicide, obesity and school problems, drug addiction, early pregnancies, Abortions & crimes.
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A natural outcome of marriage. Strong cultural pressures and expectations for every married couple to have children.
Parenthood
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Is significant because it is the child who gives the family its form and structure.
Child's position in the family
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Refer to the family
Mag-anak
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Links the families of the father and mother: bilaterally extended family. Related by blood equally to both his father and mother's kin group. Acquisition of new roles & statuses: new sets of duties, responsibilities & obligations.
Child
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The filipino family has been ________ as evidenced by the sacrifices the parents make for their children.
Child centered
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Values of children: help they provide; financial help, ______ in old age, _______ in housework in housework and childcare.
Support. Assistance.
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Values of children: _______, take an active part in the family production and maintenance activities.
Rural areas
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Values of children: provide _______ & ________ benefits; companionship, love & happiness, play and fun.
Social & Emotional
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Values of children: gives them incentives of success, satisfying their drive for achievement, providing a ___________ in their lives.
sense of fulfillment
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Values of children: serve as an _______ to give them the best in life.
Inspiration
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Values of children: cement the union of their parents by helping strengthen the ________. Bring goodluck because the child is seen as __________.
Marital bond. Gift of God.
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Values of children: to _____ a child is the fulfillment of one's womanhood & masculinity. Children ________ the family name.
Bear. Perpetuate.
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Is a process whereby the individual acquires and internalizes the norms, attitudes and values of his/her society. Process by w/c the individual's personality is formed.
Role of parents in Socialization
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Agents of socialization
Church, School & Family "CSF"
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The individual's personality is affected by the kinds of people he _______ with the community he/she belongs.
Interacts
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Carries the greatest responsibility in socialization. It is the first, the closest, and the most influential social group in the child's life.
Family
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Spends a great part of his/her time especially the formative years. Receives his/her earliest training in proper behavior.
Child
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Plays a major role in the development of his personality and character.
Family
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Parents are obliged to _______ the child in the form of a balanced diet, adequate clothing, sufficient shelter, proper medical attention, and education until the child completed his training for some profession, trade or vocation.
Support
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Have the primary right and obligation to provide the upbringing of the child and to discipline him as may be necessary for the formation of his/her good character.
Parents
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Genuine love and concern for the child's welfare. Community expectations & Legal prescription.
Child rearing
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The fathers' feeling about the quality of fathering they received when they were youngsters is the most __________ of their involvement with their children: child care and child rearing.
Consistent predictor
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One who is often away from home but maintains a warm relationship with children.
Dilettante father
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Equates fatherhood with raising of and providing for children.
Procreator father
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One who sees fatherhood as a task and obligation, and is obsessed with directing his children's lives.
Determinative father
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One who spends time with children and enjoys being with them such that fatherhood becomes an opportunity for his own growth & development.
Generative father
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Family as an _______: set high ideals for your children and be prepared for a challenging struggle.
Adventure
