(5) Family Flashcards
What are characteristics of a well-functioning family?
- Are flexible
- Have permeable boundaries
- Allow satisfying relationships insides and out of the family
- Are consistent but flexible with children
What are characteristics of a negatively functioning family?
- Are rigid or too permeable
- Members have difficulty disengaging from family
- Have few community attachments (e.g. friends)
- More likely to perceive children negatively
- Are punitive and inconsistent with children
What is Parents’ socialisation of children?
begins at birth, is conscious and systematic, reinforces positive behaviour and imposes rules
When does Socialisation become more intense?
with the child’s greater mobility, with the acquisition of formal language
How do parents promote their childs social development?
- Choose the neighbourhood and home where they live
- Decorate the home and the child’s room in certain ways (e.g. gendered)
- Expose the child to certain contents and activities (e.g. TV, games, religious ceremonies)
Parenting patterns and styles tend to reflect two primary dimensions of behaviour, which are…
emotion and control
Which two ways may a parent respond to their child?
Parents may be warm, responsive and child centred, or rejecting, unresponsive and uninvolved
What happens with child-parent interactions as children get older?
As children get older and more autonomous they will become more active in regulating interactions with parents
What are examples of Barber, 2002 types of control?
- Behavioural Control
- Setting reasonable rules
- Parental use of suggestions, reasoning and options
- Involves monitoring the child’s activities
- Moderate control leads to more cooperative children and higher internalising of parental rules
What does psychological control involve?
- Involves induction of guilt, shame and other emotion directed tactics
- Includes ignoring of discounting the child’s feelings
What can psychological control lead to?
Often leads to lower self-esteem, higher anxiety and depression in children
What is authoritive parenting?
Parenting that is warm, responsive and involved yet uninstructive and in which parents set reasonable limits and expect appropriate, mature behaviour from their children (energetic friendly child)
What is Authoritarian parenting?
Parenting that is harsh, unresponsive and rigid and in which parents tend to use power-assertive methods of control (conflicted-irritable child)
What is permissive parenting?
Parenting that is lax and in which parents exercise inconsistent discipline and encourage children to express their impulses freely (impulsive-aggressive child)
What is uninvolved parenting?
Parenting that is indifferent and neglectful and in which parents focus on their own needs, rather than on the children’s needs. Also known as neglecting-rejecting parenting (neglected child)
How is parenting styles criticised?
Unclear paths between parenting styles and children’s behaviour, it neglects the influence of child’s temperament and behaviours