Zen of Cool - Flame Flashcards
The Yan is like being a flame who shines with such fun and positive emotion that people are drawn in by their own desire for its warmth. The Yan is the way that you do affect other people. It is the way that you add value to the vibe with no agenda. Always practice the Yan. Because you are in your own headspace, not having it dictated to you by others, you would be as happy and fun regardless of whomever you are hanging out with at the moment, because that is just how you are. The Ya
Zen of Cool - Flame
I feel good emotions. Life is such an amazing gift. I am always happy, smiling, laughing with my friends, and dancing to the music. This is not only the best possible vibe, but it’s also a powerful indicator that I am successful in other areas of life.
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Zen of Cool - Flame
I always make a positive contribution to every social interaction. I want to create a fun and stimulating vibe that everyone can enjoy. I always seem to have the most amazing experiences with the coolest people, because of the energy that I put into my social interactions.
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Zen of Cool - Flame
I spread good feelings to others. I shine the warmth of my charisma so that it fills the space all around and draws people to me. I make them feel good about me and I make them feel good about themselves. I acknowledge people, I show them respect, and I make them feel appreciated.
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Zen of Cool - Flame
I am fun, exciting, and playful. Girls often describe me as “crazy” (in a good way.) I like to keep them on their toes.
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Zen of Cool - Flame
I know that my personality is attractive and genuinely liked, and so I don’t feel like I have anything to hide. Because of this, people feel that I am open and sincere, that I am being “real.”
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Zen of Cool - Flame
I am continually making things happen. That’s my role. I am proactive. I am a risk-taker. I escalate. I lead things in a natural and fun way–and I never come across as pushy.
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Zen of Cool - Flame
I am perfectly fine with rejection and I don’t take it personally. Most girls push me away the first time I go to kiss them anyway, as a normal matter of course.
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Zen of Cool - Flame
I am comfortable expressing my feelings, without fear of looking bad. I can laugh at myself and I don’t take things too seriously.
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Zen of Cool - Flame
I am a very social guy. I start conversations, and I introduce people around. I am the guy who introduces everyone to everyone else.
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Zen of Cool - Flame
I have a lot to bring to the table. I radiate the energy, humor, and creativity necessary to keep things fun and stimulating. Why? That’s just the kind of guy that I am.
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Zen of Cool - Flame
If I am escalating physically with a girl (for example, going for a kiss) and then I feel that she is resistant or disinterested, I am perfectly ok with that. I know that it is no big deal. I just roll off of her and then return to escalate again. That’s my job.
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Zen of Cool - Flame
I practice my storytelling, sound bites, delivery, humor, body rocking, vibe, group theory, and frame control. I am all about adding value.
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