Working in Counselling Relationships Flashcards
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What is the process of counselling
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- Development/Building Phase
- establish therapeutic relationship
- info gathering
- goal setting - understanding & action phases
- termination phase
- theoretical orientation influences all phases
2
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Microskills
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- use of skills are different depending on theoretical orientation of counsellor
- skills for creating relationships
- don’t underestimate
- fundamentals
3
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Building the counselling relationship.
Why is the relationship so important?
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- most important/ fundamental element
- Creates atmosphere: safety, trust
- Reducing fear, stigma, hesitancy
- A vehicle & container for intense affect (emotions)
- full exploration, experience of self in way that allows for growth and change
- Models a healthy interpersonal relationship
- Provides motivation to achieve goals
- Provides support/comfort/reassuranceas they undergo a change process - frightening & unfamiliar
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Building a counselling relationship: the working alliance
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- primary goal of “beginning”
- Quality & strength of the reciprocal relationship between both
- Best predictor of treatment outcome, accounts for an ~30% of outcome variance in therapy: monitor what clients think
1. Agreement on goals
2. Agreement on tasks
3. Bond between client and counsellor - Client’s perspective of alliance that matters
- Rating scales at the end of the session can help assess this SRS, ORS (these instruments measure three key
components of working alliance)
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Factors influencing working alliance
- has to happen 3-5 session
- better shape @ beginning of session, improve quicker & more long term success
- 50% anxiety/depression improve by 8-13
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- Seriousness & of Presenting Issues
- Structure: decrease anxiety: guidelines, flexible/negotiable, verbal or written
- Readiness for Change
- Resistant Clients
- Reluctant Clients: unmotivated to seek help
- Physical Setting & Proxemics
- Transference & Countertransference
- Client Qualities
- Counsellor Qualities
- -Empathy primary/advanced
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Why are initial sessions important?
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- Counselling relationship really begins at the point of first contact – usually phone call schedule first appointment
- Clients often experience changes as they wait to have their initial session
- Be mindful about what it may mean for client to enter counselling
- Be aware of cultural diversity in clients and differences in comfort in disclosing personal information
- Promoting safety and trust is key
- Common microskills include: questions, clarifications, paraphrasing, summarizing, reflection of affect/meaning
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Types of initials session
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- Information Oriented Interviews: questions, clarification, obtain data, specific questions, factual
- Relationship Oriented Interviews: focused on attitudes & emotions
- Preferences towards either of the above types are influenced by theoretical orientations
* **- depends on type of initial session you use: setting of work; theoretical orentation
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Goals of initial sessions
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- Provide client with info about the counselling process & limits to confidentiality to ensure informed consent –i.e. cover “ESENTIALS”
- Establish rapport, initiate development of the therapeutic relationship, engender hope and positive expectations
- Orient the client to the counselling process
- Assess urgency of the client’s issues
- Explore client expectations & goals for counselling
- Obtain a basic history of the client, their presenting issues & current life circumstances
- Assess readiness for change
- Obtain client commitment to the counselling process
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Winding down initial sessions
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- Helpful to have it known to both
- Leave enough time at the end so that the ending does not feel rushed
- Can be helpful to cultivate hope about the helping process & and solidify a follow up appointment
- Check in with client about how they felt about the session, & how they are feeling about working with you, inquire about questions they may have
- maintain boundaries around time/relationship these can get tested at the end of a session
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The working stage of counselling
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- Occurs after a working alliance is established
- Characterized by insight generation & experimentation with new ways of thinking, being & relating with varying degrees of success
- Accurate empathy is critical throughout initial & working phases of counselling
- Common microskills in this phase involve reframing, leading, multifocused responding, self-disclosure, immediacy, & confrontation
- Respecting and working with client’s readiness for change is also essential – pacing
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Stages of change
- can enter into any stage
- can relapse (usually action & maintenance)
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Stages of Change
- Pre-contemplation
- Contemplation
- Preparation
- Action
- Maintenance
12
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precontemplation - “what problem?”
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- Counsellors can help people acknowledge their problems & become more open to change
- Consciousness-raising involves increasing the client’s knowledge of the risks & consequences of continuing their current behaviour(s)
- Involves helping them become aware of the main defenses they are using to cope with their problem
- Goal setting – very basic, unrelated to change but may relate to exploring some ideas
- defensive, enter usually due to mandate, reluctant, very expressive, high risk for terminating
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Contemplation - “i might have a problem”
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- involves a willingness to change,
paired with some barriers in progressing. - ambivalence about changing. - dealing with the problem: waiting for the right time, wishful thinking etc..
- Counsel Tasks: help client explore their
ambivalence, helping clients with self re-evaluation pros/cons of changing - Goal setting – tentative moving towards specific, thinking about thinking about setting goals
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Preparation: “what do i do about this problem”
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- feeling ready to move towards change but unsure about goals or not committed to changing
- Characterized by some confusion/hesitation rather than ambivalence
- may have made some small changes
- Goal-setting and motivating clients are important tasks of counsellor
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Preparation - Goal setting
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Counsellor’s Tasks: Goal setting and Motivating
- Help client set clear goals for counselling and help them commit to those goals by motivating
- Ineffective goals
- - Unfocused, unrealistic, uncoordinated
- Effective goals
- - Mutually agreed upon
- - SMART- specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, timely
- - Encouraging client to share goals with others