Week Nine - Family/Friendships & Personlity Flashcards
What similarities do we see between individuals and the partners they choose?
Ethnicity
SES
Age
Education
- may be reflective of how people meet
What are the 3 types of marriage?
equal partner relationship
conventional marriage
junior partnership
How many people cohabitate?
3/4 - increased dramatically
Why did we see increase in divorce rates?
New divorce laws were introduced and no longer had to prove anything
Having a child often?
Brings increased conflict to a couple
If a mothers experience mismatches their ideas, what happens?
They may have mood instability and experience declines in relationship satisfaction
What are the main differences between families who thrive/struggle?
Thriving families
- accept challenges/responsibility
- give priority to parenting role
- use consistent authoritative parenting
- emphasise communication
- foster individuality
- nurture
- establish traditions
What % of men/worry dont marry?
27% of men, 23% of women
Why has childlessness increased?
Delays in childbearing
Changes in attitudes
Ill health
Infertility
What are early articulators and postponers?
Emphasise early on that they do not want children
Plan to have kids later
Older married people tend to be?
Happier, healthier and long-lived than widowed/divorced people
Why are older widowed men more likely to remarry?
They don’t do as well without a partner
What are vertical relationships?
Adult-child
What are horizontal relationships?
peer relationships
Peer relationships are?
An essential feature of childhood
Why are peer relationships important?
They encourage development of self-regulating behaviour
By interacting with peers, children learn how to?
Regulate their emotions
Interact and communicate
Develop skills for forming close personal relationships
What age do friendships begin?
By age 3, based on the desire to play, fun and companionship
- usually dissolve