week 4 Flashcards
objectives of the arrangement conference (3)
- identify facts; who died, how, when, where, etc.
- acknowledge the loss; offer sympathy
- gather background info on family and deceased
- assess needs and concerns of the survivors (wants and needs)
- formulate an atmosphere of trust and confidence
- alleviate tension and anxiety
- share meaningful information
- one of the most important elements of the funeral process
- during this time, the family and director create a blueprint for the services
during the arrangement conference
details of blueprints of arrangement conference
- time, date and location of service
- musical selections
- family floral piece
- merch selection
- type of disposition
- automobile needs
- memory table/picture boards
- explanation of expenses
- options concerning financing
beginning the arrangement conference (4)
- ensure everyone is comfortable, offer beverages, tissues, etc
- summarize role in the funeral planning process
- emphasize importance of planning a personalized, meaningful funeral
- review goals goals for the arrangement conference
- learn about family and person that died
- help family understand the many opportunities they have to celebrate and mourn the life
why do we have funerals? (5)
- final disposition for the body of the deceased
- religious ritual
- social support
- celebration of life
- acceptable environment to express
6 logical steps of the funeral
- event of death
- notification of death
- confrontation of the reality of the event
- support of the community
- providing religious, spiritual, or philosophical support
- disposition of the physical remains with ceremony
funeral experience for families (4)
- funerals with meaning
- requesting funerals without clergy present
- want participation not just product
- should be multi-dimensional not one-dimensional
during arrangement conference we ;
- collect vital statistical information about the deceased
- garner info for death notice and/or obituary
- discuss method of disposition; burial or cremation
- plan the service for the deceased
- select appropriate merchandise
- discuss families financial obligations
family entitlements for veterans
- plot and burial allowance
- 2,000 for service connected deaths
- 255$ lump-sum death benefit from social security
important form numbers for veterans (4)
- ssa-721 ; statement of death by funeral director (2 years from date of death to file for benefit)
- 21-530 (21P-530) ; application for burial benefits (2 years from date of final disposition)
- 27-2008 ; flag application (prior to disposition)
- 40-1330; application for headstone and marker (unlimited time to file)
burial and plot interment allowance amount for non service connected deaths
- va is authorized to pay up to 300$ towards a veterans funeral and burial expenses and up to 700$ toward plot interment costs. Only for deaths whose occurred on or after September 30, 2011.
- Veterans net assets don’t affect the amount of burial allowance that the NOK can receive; however allowance will be reduced if the burial expenses are paid by veterans employer, state or another government source.
death in a VA facility, ie. hospital, contracted nursing home care, or nursing home that were being paid by the VA;
- the secretary of VA will pay the veterans burial and funeral costs; not to exceed 700$.
- some or all of the costs for transporting the veterans remains to the state for interrment will be reimbursed.
- VA doesn’t reimburse the cost for transportation of remains whose deaths occurred in other countries
Service connected deaths for VA
- may pay up to 2,000 dollars of the veterans funeral and burial expenses if veteran died as a result of a service connected disability
- if death occurred prior to September 10, 2001; va will pay up to 1,500$ of the funeral and burial expenses.
- if veterans is buried in National cemetery, some or all of the cost for transportation may be reimbursed
veterans benefits (7)
- burial flag
- government marker
- military funeral
- burial in a national cemetery
- presidential memorial certificate (pmc) 40-0247
- plot and burial allowance if applicable
- reimbursement for transportation charges*
how to properly display flag on caskets
- closed casket
- half couch casket
- full couch casket
- the stars go over veterans left shoulder
- 3 layers (10 inch folds) to cover the closed half of the casket
- fold flag into a triangle and place in the casket cap just above the left shoulder of the deceased
veteran funeral protocol (4) order of ceremony
- rifle squad volleys
- sounding of taps
- folding of fold
- presentation of the flag to the family
a recess of space in a columbarium used for the permanent placing of cremated remains
niche
reduction of bone fragments which remain after cremation to a uniform consistency
pulverization