Unit 3- Communication Flashcards

1
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3 keys to effective communication:

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Looking
Listening
Responding

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2
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Superficial

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Small talk
Makes up the majority of out communication
Weakens the stability of any relationship and it will not last

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3
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Personal

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Involves opening up and talking about your feelings, beliefs, and opinions that mean something to you
Sharing your personal qualities
Influences and strengthens relationships

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4
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Validating

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Reinforces other people’s personal qualities and feelings about themselves by first excepting their feelings, second understanding them and third nurturing them.
Complementing others.
Shows an understanding and strengthens relationship

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5
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Touch oriented

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Wants/needs: hugging, holding hands,physically close

how to please: high-fives, knuckles, hugs

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6
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Verbal oriented

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Wants/needs: sharing one’s feelings, listening, heart to heart talks, caring words, meaningful discussions
how to please: going on a walk

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7
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Task oriented

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Wants/needs: achievement, accomplishment, hard work, status, things
how to please: we wards for hard work

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8
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What percent of communication is nonverbal

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55%

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9
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Two examples of nonverbal communication behavior clues

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Leaning head on hand or fidgeting shows that the subject is bored

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10
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What are the six functions of nonverbal communication

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Repeat, substitute, complementing, accent,regulate, contradict

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11
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Intimate zone

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Distance: 18 inches description: reserved for only close friends and relatives

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12
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Personal zone

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Distance: 18 inches – 4 feet
description: 2–1/2 feet for casual conversation but contacts in this zone are reasonably close but less personal

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13
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Social zone

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Distance: 4–12 feet description: for parties and family gatherings and for friends and casual acquaintances

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14
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Public zone

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Distance: 12 feet or more description: speakers in their audiences, used in classrooms

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15
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Speaking out of turn

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Interrupting

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16
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Accusing someone instead of trying to find out who is at fault

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Blaming

17
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These are arguments that never end. Issues are brought up that are old and have nothing to do with what is happening now

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Endless fighting

18
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Involves name-calling, belittling comments, and insulting remarks that sensitive subjects. Sarcasm is another form.

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Character assassination

19
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When you involve outsiders in your personal relationships and quarrels

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Calling in reinforcements

20
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Backing away from the communication and avoiding conversation. She was hurt, rejection, fear, neglect, or anger.

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Withdrawal

21
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A person refusing to admit any wrong doing and having a need to be right.

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Need to be right

22
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A non-threatening message me that states the thoughts and feelings the speaker is having at the time of communication. The information belongs to the speaker and is about the speaker.

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I message

23
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Meaning what you say and saying what you mean

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Clarity

24
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Repeating what was said to make sure you heard the speaker correctly

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Clarifying

25
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Select a good time on the right time to do your important communicating

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Timing

26
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Collecting more information to show that you are really listening and trying to understand

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Asking questions

27
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When the listener mirrors back the thoughts and or feelings speaker is experiencing and helps the speaker feel like they are being hear

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Reflective listening

28
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Respect the other person’s point of view even if it is different than yours and allowing them to express their feelings.

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Respect consideration

29
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Not becoming so emotional that it affects our ability to communicate effectively. Anger is a roadblock to communication

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Avoid anger

30
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Turning a negative communication into a positive

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Reframing

31
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Showing appreciation for what was shared or done. It increases their self worth. Collecting information used to help the speaker feel like they are trying to be understood

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Validate

32
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Steps to problem-solving

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  1. preparation
  2. identify
  3. brainstorm
  4. Evaluate
  5. Decide
  6. implement
  7. follow up
33
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The process of exchanging thoughts messages or information between two or more people

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Communication