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Unit 3 Flashcards

1
Q

Sometimes, when children do not receive enough affection, they will begin to “_____ _____” in order to gain attention.

A

Act up.

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2
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A solid Christian family is built upon a solid __________.

A

Marriage.

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3
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Mature couples attack the _________and not the people involved.

A

Problem.

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4
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___ _____ maintains that sex within the context of marriage is not only for PROCREATION but for PLEASURE as well.

A

Dr. Wheat

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5
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Families today, according to __ _ ____ _____, are SMALLER, MORE MOBILE, and have FEWER ROOTS in their communities.

A

Dr. B. Max Price

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Most researchers state that a child’s most basic personality, modes of thinking, style of speech, & other critical traits are established by age ___.

A

Five.

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7
Q

Even in traditional family structures, familial dysfunctions are perpetuated _______-__________.

A

Trans-generationally.

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8
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The average age for first year marriages for men is ____-______.

A

Twenty-six.

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9
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The average age for first year marriages for women is ____-______.

A

Twenty-four.

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10
Q

As Christians grow closer in their relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ, they also grow closer to _____ _______.

A

One another.

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11
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Resources that are developed within the ___________ (or marital) subsystem become readily available to address dysfunctions within the _______ system.

A

Executive. Sibling.

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12
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In _____ _______, parents who are raised in dysfunctional homes attempt to implement parenting styles that are opposite to those of their own parents.

A

Reactionary. Parenting.

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13
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__________ are bits & pieces of our dysfunctional past that seems to pop up from one generation to the next.

A

Leftovers.

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14
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Perfectionistic parents always imply to their children that their ________ is not good enough.

A

Performance.

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15
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Another tool that aids in family systems analysis is the CIRCUMPLEX, developed by ___ _____ _____.

A

Dr. David Olson

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16
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Teaching our children about sex should be understood as a _______ and not a _____ ______ event.

A

Process. One-time.

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17
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All children need to be looked upon with _____ _____-_______.

A

Positive self-regard.

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18
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_____ _______ truly is the key to a vital & healthy marital relationship and a balanced, healthy family.

A

Effective communication.

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If children observe their parents handling conflict in violent ways, they will probably utilize inappropri-ate ____ _____ methods in dealing with conflict in their own lives.

A

Conflict resolution.

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20
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Parents should work together to achieve consistency in methods of _______ & ________.

A

Nurture & discipline.

21
Q

________ involves the parent who attempts to realize his/her own dreams through the life of his/her child.

A

Vicariousness.

22
Q

Mature people give up the need to be _______.

A

Right.

23
Q

Unfortunately, many parents make the mistake of equating discipline with ________.

A

Punishment.

24
Q

No matter how resistant the child, he still needs lots of unconditional _____, unqualified _______, & unhurried ________.

A

Love. Acceptance. Presence.

25
Q

Today, many families suffer because of society’s emphasis upon ________ in the context of a humanistic culture.

A

Materialism.

26
Q

Members of dysfunctional families become too emotionally & relationally ________ in each other’s lives.

A

Enmeshed.

27
Q

It is important to note that dysfunctional behavior patterns may also be present in ________ families.

A

Healthy.

28
Q

Undesirable traits & behavior patterns (in our children) must be replaced with ________ of Godly living.

A

Models.

29
Q

“The Doer” has an over-developed sense of responsibility. According to?

A

Dr. H. Norman Wright.

30
Q

Less than ____% of all parents attend their child’s I.E.P. meeting.

A

50%

31
Q

Dr. ____ ____ ______ refers to ages six to eleven as “the age of the loose tooth.”

A

B. Max Price

32
Q

“ROLE-REVERSAL is the primary relationship in the frightening phenomenon of child abuse.” Quote by?

A

Dr. Ross Campbell

33
Q

Early parental ______ & repeated failures at _______ ________ play a large role in the development of Avoidance Personality Disorder.

A

Rejection. Social Interaction.

34
Q

COGNITIVE RE-FRAMING is “taking a concept that someone uses in a maladaptive way & helping him/her to view it differently & more realistically.” According to?

A

Dr. James L. Powell

35
Q

“THE LONER” seeks to avoid family pressures by physically or emotionally withdrawing from other family members. According to?

A

Dr. H. Norman Wright

36
Q

_____________ occurs in families when there is little or no direct communication between family members.

A

Triangulation

37
Q

_________ _______ fosters an increasing dependency upon a parent & undermines self-reliance.

A

Inappropriate Love

38
Q

PARENTAL REJECTION “appears to be a prevalent factor in the development of Avoidant Personality Disorder.” According to?

A

Millon & Everly

39
Q

The main role of parenting is to move our children in the direction of ___________.

A

Independence.

40
Q

Children who suffer from ADD, with or w/o hyperactivity, have trouble ________ ______ _______ for an extended period of time.

A

Focusing their attention.

41
Q

Because of low self-esteem & an inclination toward self-depreciating introspection, withdrawal from social settings often leads to continued ______-________.

A

Self-devaluation.

42
Q

Only _____% of children with special needs are diagnosed before age five.

A

28%

43
Q

One method of analyzing one’s family of origin is called ________ ___________.

A

Genogram Analysis

44
Q

From the very beginning of time, God created people to live together as __________.

A

Families.

45
Q

If one person in a family has difficulty in a given area, the whole family is __________.

A

Affected.

46
Q

About _____% of the couples who seek marital counseling indicate that the inability to _______ is the most devastating problem in their relationship.

A

80%

47
Q

In order to assure proper role identification within the family, parents must set _________ _________ between the executive & sibling subsystem.

A

Appropriate Boundaries.

48
Q

Good ________ ________ skills must be developed as couples learn to confront areas of dissension in their relationship.

A

Conflict resolution.

49
Q

_____ _______ have suggested that the best form of communication is for couples to PRAY TOGETHER ALOUD.

A

The Stanfords

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