Unit 3 Flashcards
How do aspects of parenting impact child development?
- father involvement (7 &11) = positive academics and clean criminal record in adolescence
- closeness with mother (16) = marital satisfaction in adulthood
- mother and teen hostility = adjustments in adulthood
- parenting training/interventions = reduce behavioural and delinquent problems in children
3 aspects of parenting
- warmth and care
- control and demandingness
- discipline
4 parenting styles
- authoritative
- authoritarian
- permissive
- uninvolved
Outcomes of parenting styles
- positive outcomes for children with authoritative parents
- negative outcomes for children with neglectful/uninvolved parents
- midd - children with authoritarian parents
cultural influence on parenting style chosen
- white = authoritative (better outcomes in western societies)
- non-white = authoritarian
gender differences in parenting styles
- mother = authoritative
- father = authoritarian or permissive
Influence of parental conflict and divorce on child
overall poorer outcomes but while parenting matters it is not as important as the “quality” of parenting
Minor conflict between parents (are divorced), leads to…
more negative psychological outcomes in child as he/she might wonder why his/her parents are getting divorced
lots of conflict between parents (are divorced), leads to…
better psychological outcomes in child as child might feel a sense of relief.
When do the most severe outcomes occur during the process of a divorce (for the child?)
In the “short-term” (first couple of years after the divorce)
what are long-term effects of divorce (for the child)?
- more likely to drop out of school
- more likely to go through divorce themselves
Children from LGB families report feeling _____ and subject to ____ but feel ____ about their family overall.
different, social difficulties, positively
Parenting quality matters regardless of
- gender, sexuality of parents
cross-cultural goals for child rearing?
- protection
- nurturance
- socialization
parenting reflects the ___ and ___ of a given cultural context
beliefs and values
differences in how warmth is expressed cross-culturally
Chinese parents
- less warmth (tend to withhold praise)
- more controlling (respecting authority)
Latin American parents
- goal to fulfil obligations
- need to maintain harmonious relationships
What is valued as being “good parents”?
different across cultures and has to do with interdependence or independence
Caregiver relationship (siblings)
one sibling serves as a quasi-parental figure for the other
buddy relationship (siblings)
both siblings like each other and try to be like each other
casual/uninvolved relationships (siblings)
siblings who have little to do with each other
critical/conflictual/rival relationships (siblings)
When one sibling tries to dominate the other - teasing and fighting
functions of sibling relationships
- practice communication and social skills
- buffers for peer rejection, parental conflict
- provides opportunity to learn about gender
- promotion of individuality (differentiation from other sibling)
- can lead to conflict that can be constructive or destructive
stereotypes with birth order
- first = perfectionist, get along well with others, leadership skills
- youngest = spoiled, pampered
- middle = gets ignored
not often factually true
Only children tend to have
- higher self-esteem
- better academic performance
differences in peer relationships for only children across culture
- In North America = less peer acceptance
- In China = no difference
why?
- only child policy in china = more normative to have one child
- collectivistic cultures = more contact with extended family
Important functions that grandparents serve
- useful for survival (helping to raise children)
- boosting emotional well-being
- serves as buffer for risk and stress
types of grandparents
- influential
- supportive
- passive
- detached
- authority oriented
influential grandparents
very involved and serve as authority figures (best outcomes – the more warmth > the more beneficial they are for the child)
supportive grandparents
close intimacy with children but not authority figure
passive grandparents
Not very involved with child (little contact)
detached grandparents
barely any contact with child
authority oriented grandparents
Not emotionally involved with child but authority figures
Describe the development of definitions of friendship across development
- young children = rewards/costs
- middle childhood = shared interests/reciprocal support
- adolescence = psychological, shared interest, shared values
2 factors that cause development in friendships
- more time spent with peers
- cognitive developments (perspective taking abilities)
define friendship
close, mutual, reciprocal, voluntary relationships with other people
cliques
small, voluntary, friendship-based groups (3-9 ppl)
- shared backgrounds, gender, race and ethnicity
crowds
less voluntary, reputation-based friendships (fall into a category)
functions of friendships
- emotional support
- buffer in stressful situations
- social comparison
- provides stimulation
- learn to develop social skills
Functions of cliques
- provides a social group to hangout with
- provides sense of belonging
- leads to romantic relationships (for straight teens)
function of crowds
- provides placement for individuals within society
- sense of identity and self-concept
- establishes social norms
5 sociometric peer statuses
- popular kids
- rejected kids
- controversial kids
- neglected kids
- average kids