TPE25 Negotiations Flashcards
Matrix of perceived conflict over stakes, vs the importance of future relationships
Seven Elements
of Successful Negotiations
Critical Elements
1. Alternatives
* Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement
* Increase yours, decrease theirs
2. Interests
3. Options
* Generate as many as possible
4. Standards of legitimacy
* External comparisons and criteria to use as a sword/shield
5. Communication
* Combine advocacy with plenty of inquiry
6. Relationship
* Separate people from the problem
* Speak for yourself, not for them
7. Commitment
* Avoid committing too early (esp. in multi-variable negotiations). Make commitments of substance at the end (not piecemeal)
*Agree on process commitments early on to move the negotiations forward
Preparing for negotiations
- Determine your opening offer before you begin negotiations
- Do the best you can to determine your negotiating counterpart’s BATNA
- Craft a dialogue that engenders information exchange
- Prepare for a range of alternative strategies to be employed
- Need to understand decision context, constraints and decision rules employed and be prepared to LISTEN
Processes required for integrative negotiations:
- Attempting to Understand the Other’s Real Needs and Objectives:
- Creating a Free Flow of Information
- Emphasising Commonalties between Parties and Minimizing Differences
- Searching for Solutions that Meet Goals & Objectives of Both Sides
Heuristics in negotiations
Elements of active listening
- Paraphrasing
- Inquire
- Acknowledge
- Emotional labelling
- Reflecting/mirroring
- Pauses/silence
- “I feel ____ when you ____”
- Open ended questions
- Minimal encouragers
*Summarise
Phases of the negotiation
- Differentiation phase(s)
- purpose: to find out the differences, and each
side’s true position - main activity: exchanging information
- specific behaviours:
* making clear statements
* listening
* checking understanding
Don’t
* challenge the other side’s position too early
* present solutions yet
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- purpose: to find out the differences, and each
- Exploration phase(s)
- purpose: to look for options, for ways to resolve the differences
- main activity: indicating and testing flexibility
- specific behaviours:
* clarifying
* reflecting
* summarising
Don’t
* reject any suggestion totally
* respond to a suggestion with another suggestion
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3.a Exchange phase»_space; Compromising outcome - purpose: to reach a final decision to conclude the negotiation
- main activity: joint concession making
- specific behaviours:
* making clear statements
* emphasise the benefits of the agreement
* checking
Don’t
* agree to anything you can not or will not do
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3.b Exchange phase»_space; Conceding/Contending outcome - purpose: to reach a final decision to conclude the negotiation
- main activity: unilateral concession making
- specific behaviours:
* making clear, final statements
* checking
Don’t
* agree to anything you can not or will not do
* parade your win