Topic 1 - Relationships And Families Flashcards
Catholics teach sex should be….
Marital
Unitive
Procreative
What is meant by the term ‘marital’
Sex and love is a gift from God
The ultimate commitment
What is meant by the term ‘unitive’
Sex deepens the love.
The couple become closer and more committed
They give themselves to each other.
What is meant by the term ‘procreative’
God creates new life through sex
There is more intensity in self- giving when open to new life.
Quote to support Marital sex
“The sexual act outside marriage is a grave sin”
- ccc
Quote to support procreative sex
“Be fruitful and multiply”
- Genesis 1:27-28
Quote to support unative sex
“The two shall become one flesh”
- Mark 10:6-9
What is the catholic teaching about sex before marriage
Sex before marriage (especially casual sex) trivialises the act
If both parties are virgins, the gift of virginity in marriage makes both feel more special and loved
What is meant by this quote:
“God created humans in his image, male and female.”
-Genesis 1:27
Human life is most important to God
Men and women are equal in the eyes of God and are complementary to eachother
Pope John Paul II: theology of the body
What are the views of Marital sex
Unites the couple in self-giving and love
Bonds the couple
Shows commitment, love
Gives the possibility of new life
Pope John Paul II: theology of the body
What are the views of Extramarital sex
Exploits the other person for personal pleasure
Can lead to seeing others as sex objects – rather than individuals with dignity and value
Can make people selfish …
Adultery breaks the marriage vows
What are the important teachings about Catholic Marriage
‘Think spel’
S acrament (God is part of the marriage) P ermanent (it is life-long) E xclusive (faithfulness is very important) L ife-giving (it should be pro-creative)
Catholic marriage vows
To have and to hold from this day forwards For better for worse For richer for poorer In sickness and in health To love and to cherish Until death do us part
Adultery – Catholic views
• It breaks the marriage vows (have and to hold….love
and cherish)
• Betrays trust - causes hurt
• Brings distress to whole family
• Can cause the break-up of the marriage (insecure for children)
• Jesus says adultery is wrong
Contrasting views about adultry
personal happiness is more important…? Perhaps the couple made a serious mistake by getting married?
Catholic teachings on homosexuality:
• It is not a sin to have homosexual feelings
• Homosexual sex is considered wrong because it is not pro-
creative
Catholic church and same sex marriage
- Same-sex marriage is legal in the UK
- But the Catholic Church teach that it is not (sacramentally) marital (Adam and Eve) nor properly unitive nor procreative.
- Therefore Catholic Church will not marry same sex couples nor will the Church of England.
What is divorce
Divorce: the legal ending of a marriage
Whay can’t couples get divorced in the catholic church
God is part of the marriage
Catholic marriage is ‘till death do us part’
Catholic ideas of remarriage
- Catholics cannot re-marry in a Catholic Church unless the original partner has died
- A re-married Catholic cannot therefore receive Holy Communion
What makes a catholic marriage valid?
Must be consummated
Both parties must give consent and be free to marry
They must be married of their own free will
Must be willing to accept children
The five vows must be said infront of a priest
Must not be closely related
What is annulment
Catholics can receive a statement that their (Catholic) marriage was invalid
Acceptable reasons to get annulled
- One/both was forced to marry
- One/both never intended to have a child
- The marriage was not consummated
- One/both never intended to remain faithful
- Lies/concealment
- Incest
- Couldn’t give consent (not understanding the vows)
Church of England views on divorce …
- Divorce IS accepted and recognised because sometimes it is human nature that vows cannot be kept
- Re-marriage is seen as a sign of God’s forgiveness and willingness to give a new start