Tools Flashcards
Flip the _____
Flip the Switch
Hi Optimus, _____?
Hi Optimus, what would you do?
What are 3 steps to take when we face a new challenge?
Breathe + Plan + Act
What should we cultivate each day?
Gratitude
What should we do when someone irritates us?
Maze -> Heart + Active Love
What is one tool for managing large challenges?
Get Perspective
Which tool should we start with when facing a challenge?
Magic Wand
What tool can we use on everything in life?
WOOP
What is one simple but effective journaling practice?
Free Write
What is a repetitive saying that imprints or guides the mind?
Mantra
Victim -> _____
Victim -> Hero
Win or ____
Win or Learn
How should we react when something goes “wrong”?
It’s just data
Curious not ____
Curious not Furious
What mode should we strive to be in?
Beta Mode
What should we say to ourselves when we fall short?
Needs Work
What is a 3-step journaling practice for continuous optimization?
Optimize-1-2-3
When we feel off balance, what can we ask ourselves?
Now what needs to get done?
What kind of stamina should we work to improve?
Emotional Stamina
What is Grit?
Grit = Passion x Persistence
What should we focus on and perfect?
Process vs Outcome
What should we line up?
Dominoes
How should we view scars?
Scars = Medals
What mindset should we have when approaching life?
Experimenter’s Mindset
How should we think about quests?
3 Quests
What do we need to cultivate to combat negative self-talk?
Self-Compassion
How much better should we aim for each day?
4%
Challenges = ____
Challenges = Fuel
What should feelings follow?
Identity -> Behavior -> Feelings
What choice do we make moment to moment to moment?
Back to Safety vs Forward into Growth
How should we approach each day?
Masterpiece Day
What do we have the most control over?
Bookends
What should we do each day?
Make Progress
How can we improve anything?
Measure
What’s the first step to installing a habit?
Minify
How should we think about new habits?
Make it easy
What two things should we have for targets and goals?
Floor vs. Ceiling
What do we need to do before we plant seeds?
Pull the weeds before planting seeds
How should we think about going all in?
Activation Energy
When we decide to do something, how should we approach it?
All-In
What are the phases to a new habit?
Unbearable -> Uncomfortable -> Unstoppable
Which tool grounds our search for an intimate relationship?
Love Letters
How should we approach anything we do?
Urgency
What isn’t fun without lines (the constraints of reality)?
Tennis Court
What two things should we go deep on?
Deep Work and Deep Love
What is the experimenter chain?
Test -> Measure -> Appreciate -> Iterate
What are if/then statements?
Implementation Intentions
What can we incorporate in our life to inspire us to act?
Cues and Triggers
What do we hope happens when we get one mile closer to our goal?
1 mile closer, 2 miles further
When do we get there?
No there, there
What should we focus on for our environment?
Tidy
Ok to ____, Not to ____!
Ok to Suck, Not to Skip!
How quickly do we burn away the dross that clouds the silver?
Little by Little
Which law governs the urgency to act?
Law of Diminishing Intent
____ Best
Optimus Best
How should we view fear?
Reverse Indicator
What should we collect as often as possible?
Micro W.I.N.s
___ Fingers
Spinny Fingers
______ ______
Stimulus Response
Close the ____
Close the Gap
_____ Game
Equanimity Game
What can we do to distance ourselves from thoughts?
Label
What can we say to distance ourselves from emotions?
Oh, look there’s
When we are lost in a train of thought, what can we do?
Notice
What kind of box should we aim to be?
Antifragile
_____ vs Threat
Challenge vs Threat
Fixed vs ____ Mindset
Fixed vs Growth Mindset
_____ Humanity
Common Humanity
_____ Racecar
Optimus Racecar
What kind of confidence should we have?
True Confidence
What should we double down on when we feel poorly?
Protocol
_______ -> Infinite Potential
Comfort Zone -> Infinite Potential