Therapeutic Communication Flashcards
Emotional Intelligence - key attributes
Self - Management
Self - Awareness
Social awareness
Relationship Management
Empathy
Emotional intelligence
Emotional intelligence is the hallmark to being able to communicate well
Self Management
– You recognize your own emotions and how they affect your thoughts and behavior. You know your strengths and weaknesses, and have self-confidence. This means you are mindful of what is happening in the moment. This is time to listen to yourself. Think before speaking. Calm your mind and focus on issues to make the best decisions.
Self Awareness
You recognize your own emotions and how they affect your thoughts and behavior. You know your strengths and weaknesses, and have self-confidence. This means you are mindful of what is happening in the moment. This is time to listen to yourself. Think before speaking. Calm your mind and focus on issues to make the best decisions.
Social Awareness
You have empathy. You can understand the emotions, needs, and concerns of other people, pick up on emotional cues, feel comfortable socially, and recognize the power dynamics in a group or organization. This means you are paying attention to verbal and non-verbal cues. You need to understand the power dynamics going on around you.
Relationship management
You know how to develop and maintain good relationships, communicate clearly, inspire and influence others, work well in a team, and manage conflict. What nonverbal messages are you giving off? Are you using humor constructively in your life? Can you see conflict as something that can be managed in a healthy, constructive way that fosters freedom, creativity and safety in the relationship?
5 types
Intrapersonal
Interpersonal
Small - group
Public
Transpersonal
Intrapersonal
self-talk - no one else involved
Interpersonal
2 people involved
Small Group
more than 2 people involved but still limited to that group
Public
large group – like an assembly at a school or concert
Transpersonal
Communication that addresses spiritual needs like church or a nurse using guided imagery/meditation
Need to consider
developmental level/age
cultural, ethical, language
cognitive, mental, physical, emotional status
Is this the right time
Active Listening
Hearing content
listening for feelings
observing body language
neutral technique
paraphrasing
self-awareness
reflection
questioning
clarifying techniques
summarizing
S.O.L.E.R Technique
S (Sqare): Face squarely; by doing this it shows you are involved.
O (Open): Keep an open posture:this means not crossing arms and legs. It make people feel engaged and welcome.
L (Lean):By leaning forward when a person is talking to you, it shows you’re involved and listening to what they have to say.
E (Eye Contact): Use good eye contact. Your gazeshows that you’re listening and not distracted.
R (Relax): It’s important to stay calm and avoid fidgeting when a person is talking to show you are focused.
Nonverbal Communication
Physical appearance and dress
* Body movement and posture
* Touch
* Facial expressions
* Eye behavior
* Vocal cues or paralanguage
Verbal Communication
With verbal communication – KIS is best – keep it simple!
Don’t rush or speak slowly to patients – this can come across and being in too much of a hurry to care about them or like you are talking down to them.
Remember – is this the best time for this talk?
Therapeutic Communication
Therapeutic Communication is how we use verbal and nonverbal cues to encourage exploration of feelings, concerns and needs to promote healing and insight.*It is nonjudgmental, discourages defensiveness, and promotes trust.
It is not social, but patient centered, and goal directed and purposeful.
Use of Self
Makes your patient feel they matter to you
Great when you don’t know what to say. (Because sometimes there just aren’t the right words)
Great when you want to encourage the patient to speak.