The Nature of Self Flashcards
PURPOSE PASSION SELF
What comes into your mind when you hear the word SELF?
My identity, passion and purpose
What is considered the pooresr area in the Country? Where is this located?
Happy Land. Tondo, Manila
Who was sir Ben’s superior?
Jay
What are the 3 things Sir Ber learned from his superior?
- During uncertain times, HOLD ON TO THE TRUTH and BE FAITHFUL TO WHO YOU ARE. (and what’s in your hand)
- During uncertain times you have to be certain of WHO and WHAT YOU ARE.
- It is always about your IDENTITY as a PERSON.
What are the two different things that you should aim for?
SUCCESS and SIGNIFICANCE
What is passion?
That burning drive to keep you going.
It answers the HOW and the WHAT
Passion
What is meaningless without identity?
Purpose
What is purpose?
Answers the WHY.
Suits your PERSONALITY, CHARACTER and CAPABILITIES.
Aligned to your identities and help you reinforce it.
State the quote under purpose
“You might be knowing, but if you don’t know who you are, it is meaningless”
What is Identity?
The very essence of who you are and why you can do things.
Is TRUE
Identity
Is CERTAIN and INTACT.
Identity
What is your Identit consist of?
Your uniqueness, your core value and principles
It indicates your priorities
Identity
Who said man is a tripartite being?
Watchman Nee 1968
What are the 3 parts of man according to Watchman?
SPIRIT- God conscious
BODY- Self conscious
SOUL- World conscious
According to Merriam Webster IDENTITY is?
The distinguishing character and personality of an individual; individually.
3 Things about your Identity.
Your Identity is the Hat that you wear all the time. It is unique
Your identity is not the roles you have and not even your circumstances.
Your identity is belief, your core values or principles.
Quote Howard Behard
“Our success is directy related to our CLARITY and HONESTY about who we are, who we are not, where we wanna go and how we want to get there.”
Quote Howadd Behard 2
“You are not trying to balande your life. You are living it. When you WALK YOUR TALK, whether it’s at work or at home, you will see yourself learning, growing and changing. Those are vakues that you can use to guide your kife and others.”
Who was held prisoner in Nazi Concentration camps? When was this?
Vicktor E. Frankl in 1940s
This kept Frankl from giving up his relentless fight for his life?
His PURPOSE.
He found meaning in his struggle, and that’s what gave him the power to push forward through unimaginable pain.
Viktor E. Frankl
Quote that sums up Viktor Frankl’s philosopy.
“Man search for meaning” “Those who have a WHY to live, can bear with almost any HOW.”
Explain Viktor’s quote.
Simply, if you found your purpose in life (reason to live), you can endure almost any misery.
What suits your personality, character and capabilities?
Your purpose.
We can’t control the circumstances we are in BUT what can you control instead?
How you respond/react to the circumstances.
Who is the Author of Habit of Highly Effective People?
Stephen R. Covey
What is considered the 1st habit?
PROACTIVE
Define Proactive
Taking the initiative to respond positively and improve the situation.
An emosion or intense feeling or conviction (Merriam)
Passion
Is an innate inclination produced by the highest level of oneness of our heart and mind, manifested into reality?
Passion (according to sir keene)
It is a result of the alignment of our soul to our spirit that has an equivalent reaction to our body.
Passion (according to sir keene)
What is Needs?
Something necessary for an an organism to live a healthy life.
This can ve objective, physical or subjective.
NEEDS.
Would cause clear negative effect or outcome?
Deficiency.
Give 3 examples of Object needs?
Food
Shelter
Sleep
3 examples of Subjective needs
Affection
Acceptance
Self-Esteem
10 Fundamental Human Needs
- Protection
- Idleness
- Creation
- Understanding
- Participatio
- Identity
- Freedom
- Transcendence
- Subsistence
- Affection
Food, shelter, work
Subsistence
Social security, Healthcare system, Work
Protection
Friendship, Family, Relationship with Nature
Affection
Literature, educational, teachers, policy
Understanding
Responsibilities, Duties, Rights
Participation
Games, Parties, Peace of mind
Leisure
Abilitues, skills, techniques
Creation
Identity
Language, Religion, Customs, Values, Norms
Equal Rights
Freedom
American Pyschologist who was known for his great work “Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs”
Abraham Maslow
Birth and Date Death of Maslow
April 1, 1908 - June 8, 1970
Stressed the importance of focusing on the positive qualities in people as opposed to treating them as a “bag of symptoms”
Abraham Maslow
What is Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
A theory of psycholohical health predicted on fulfilling innate human needs in priority, culminatingbin self-actualization.
5 level of Hierarchy Needs?
Psychological Safety Love/Belonging Esteen Self- Actualization
Self Actualization
Need to be fulfilled, learn, create, understand, and experience one’s potential.
Need to be well thought of by oneself as well as by others.
Esteem Needs
Love Needs
Need for affection, feeling of belongingness and meaningful relationship with others
Safety Needs
Need for shelter and freedom from harm and danger
Need for air, nutrition, water, elimination, rest and sleep.
Psychological Needs
Unnecessary for individual survival but is necessary for the survival of human kind.
Sex
What is SELF (Allied Sciences)
Self is composed of various IDENTITIES, ATTITUDES, BELIEFS, VALUES,MOTIVES and EXPERIENCES with respect to their communities and institution to which they belong. (Gekas and Burke 1995)
Our varied selves are creations of our perceived ideal self and that which are dependent on the scrutiny of the significant others.
Limited self
Self concept
An important term for both spcial and humanistic psychology.
Who suggested that the development of a concept of self has two aspects?
Lewis (1990)
What are the two aspects of the development of a concept of self?
Existential Self and Categorial Self
