test one Flashcards
off balance
disequilibrium
______makes you unable to cope
helplessness
divorce fairly tale
that their parents will get back together
explain to kids
why how what
thought stopping
self talk
deep breathing
muscle relaxing
coping skills
children think
did I cause this ?
who will take care of me?
will this happen to me?
task of mourning
- accept that the person is dead
- process the pain and the grief
- adjust to the world without this person
- to find an enduring connection with the deceased while working on a new life
how many people die every year in america
2 million
people in america are dying _____than usual
later
is counseling necessary?
if it affects you in the way of who you think you are
affects your married life
affect your work
affect you with the law
the belief the we have absolute control over someone. life controlling powers by blaming themselves. they would rather feel guilty than not in control
omnipotent guilt
divorce losing a home retiring new baby illegal immigrants addiction recovery new siblings illness
symbolic loss
when grief is not managed or processed normal grief can become
complicated grief
4 types of complicated grief
chronic grief reactions
delayed grief reactions
exaggerated grief reactions
masked grief reactions
sudden and unanticipated
no body to confirm the loss
preventable losses with violence involved
mourners who have had near death experiences themselves
traumatic loss
unable to help get past an illness ( alzheimers; post partum)
nosognosia
divorce rate USA
50%
4 dimensions of death education
cognitive
affective
behavioral
valuational
which occurs when a therapist transfers emotions to a person in therapy, is often a reaction to transference, a phenomenon in which the person in treatment redirects feelings for others onto the therapist.
counter transference
describes a situation where the feelings, desires, and expectations of one person are redirected and applied to another person.
transference
s when your heart is #grieving but you can’t talk about or share your pain with others because it is considered unacceptable to others.
disenfranchised grief
behavioral tasks
roadside marks
memorials
commemorative tasks
answering letters of condolences
you have to move out of what stage_______
shock
therpist techniques for children with loss
address fears and anxieties
listen closely
validate their feelings
give them words to use to show how they feel
