Tci Active Listening Study Guide Flashcards
4 Elements of a potentially violent situation
A potential trigger to violence
Target
Weapon
Level of stress or motivation
Remove the target by
Ask the targeted person to leave
If it’s you, reminding the student of your relationship; leave the situation and ask a neutral staff to manage the incident
What are the four questions we ask ourselves?
What am I feeling now?
What does this student feel, need, or want?
How is the environment affecting the student?
How do I best respond?
Decrease the level of stress or motivation by
Using your relationship
Actively listening to identify feelings
Remove the audience
Use co- regulation strategies (for reactive aggression)
Offer alternative, non-aggressive ways to achieve goals (for proactive aggression)
Please list three examples of pain based behavior
Impulsive outburst
Aggression
Running away
Self – injury
Defiance
Inability to regulate emotions
Trauma reenactment
What to think (self – awareness)
Ask yourself the four questions
Use positive self talk
Three things that active listening can do to Descalate a crisis
Identifies and validates feelings
Reduces defensiveness
Promotes change
Communicates that we care and understand
Is an effective Co- regulation strategy
Helps student “talk out rather than act out“
Write Reflective response: I don’t want to go to school. Those guys are always messing with me!
F
Reflective response: I never want to see her again. I wish that creep would drop dead
D
Active listening is not
Arguing or blaming
Giving permission
Giving advice or solving the prob for the student
Necessarily time consuming